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April 25, A married couple with three kids is getting divorced, so that one of them can marry their live-in girlfriend and keep the trio happily intact. Polygamous couple Cristina and Benno Kaiser have been married for 12 years, but have decided to call it quits on paper so their year-old lover, Sierra Kuntz, knows how committed they are to her, and sticks with them through thick and thin, the couple said in an interview with Barcoft Media.
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It was OUR walkway, not some other walkway. It was when I exited the house, just the right timing. You have the support of heaven. All I did was carry out the wishes of my Mother, but it seems that God superintended this, causing my brother to hand over the ashes even in his great anger.
The story has ended well and I consider myself to be blessed of God. I only wish my brother could reverse his stance about Dad and about me. He has made it a crime to love your parents, to love mercy, to show kindness, and to walk humbly with our God.
Pasted from July 26, commented below ….. My father died in and Mom died in Both parents were cremated per their verbal wish, but there was no further instruction from them as to disposition.
My brother inserted his own desire, i. My brother seems to have known this but ignored it and wanted to scatter anyways. By what authority will you be scattering the ashes? But instead, my brother, who has a history of abusing me, called me a bunch of ad hominem names i. Your God is too small. This is VERY hard to swallow.
The people who step in and take advantage of somebody dying…they have no shame. I posted one of the messages above.
My one brother died of alcohol poisoning. He died in his house. My sister and her husband then come back and wanted the house he died in. My parents gave it to them. My brother Sam was killed in a military plane crash. His wife now widow has claimed all the attention and assistance, never aknowledging us, the family, never admitting we were also suffering. She treated Sam afwully while he was alive.
I remember she always criticized him, always put him down, never liked him to pursue his hobbies, never let him go out, restricting his friendships. After his sudden death, she became obsessed with wanting every single belonging he had left behind.
Did whatever it took, even overstepping and sending a lawyer after his stepmom to try and get his things. Now we the family, that always loved Sam through ups and downs, that loved him no matter what, are suffering a lot, perhaps even more than this money hungry woman is. Instead of coming together, she has started spreading ugly rumors about us to his friends and asked them to cut ties with us. Everyone seems to focus on the widow and shove us the family aside.
We are suffering too! We are sad and terrified too! But she claims all the help, all the money, the donations and attention to herself. I think tragic death brings out the worst in people. It certainly brought the worst in her and in my family. He should have lived. Or maybe he is better off dead, away from all this mess and evil people. Alana, prayers to you from Oregon. And to your Mom and Dad, who sound like Angels.
I know your pain. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you hope and love. When my grandparents died, my dads side completely fell apart. My dads side is filled with rich snobby and cold people, who have hurt my parents to no end. My mom and dad, despite being the poor ones of the family, took in my grandparents when everyone else wanted to put them in a nursing home. God bless my mom, who without any complaints, now took care of my dad, his parents, and worked full time to keep things afloat.
Dad got little help from his siblings. His sister came around at times, but she and dad usually just ended up fighting. Despite all this, both his siblings told my dad that he could inherit everything from my grandparents when they passed not that the siblings needed it anyway.
But when my grandparents died…his sister who he had been fighting with who also is a slick attorney took the entire inheritance and split it between her and Johnny and left dad out.
Actually she had the nerve to send my parents a bill. My parents were shocked. My parents struggle to even buy groceries sometimes and his siblings are literally filthy rich.
Perhaps to me, the most hurtful part was after my grandparents passed, Johnny finally flew into town to spend 4th of July at my aunt slick attorney house for a family barbeque.
I never heard my dad talk like this and it scared me. I knew no way he and my aunt would talk, but I thought since Johnny was in town, maybe he could help? I messaged Johnny to please go talk to my dad and that my dad was thinking of killing himself. But Johnny completely ignored me. I got so mad, the next day I told Johnny if dad kills himself I better never see him because I would kick his ass.
Johnny and his entire family immediately deleted me from facebook and cut me out. Mom thinks that God sees everything and will make everything right in time. I hope she is right. Could please someone send a prayer for me and my parents? The death of my one brother and my dad really opened my eyes on so much. For sure though, It has given me a totally different perspective on my immediate family members.
The greed, lying, and phoniness amongst my 2 sisters, my one brother, and my mom makes me sick. From my experience, and from those who I have talked to, Death s in a family does not bring the family closer, It sends the family further apart.
I have learned a lot through all this. One thing is we all have to live with ourselves and who we are. I can at least look at myself in the mirror and feel good about who I am. He was a career soldier who served 20 yrs in the Army. He served all over the world. Decorated Uniform and Honorable Discharge in Retired in Florida with the girlfriend of 8 yrs her 3 children from 2 other marriages.
They had together a biological child my grandaughter Emma Grace. Alot of chaos, fights, arrest, jail, for my son. He needed a place to live so his ex girlfriends sister took him in temporary. She was in the air force so she let him stay at her place on base since she was gone alot. He was looking for his own apartment in between all of this mess. I live in new York and they are still in Florida but my son is laid to rest here in new York at a national cemetery. My son was an amazing father.
He treated his stepchildren as they were his own and not any diffently then his own biological daughter. I have nicely asked the ex girlfriend for a few items that were of my sons. She has refused to get in touch with me about anything. It could be absolutely anything and I would Happy with it. I have tried to apologize and ask her to find it in her heart to give me something twice in two different letters I have extended the olive branch.
This Hurts me very,very much. My son was my pride and joy. Every day I grieve for him. He was a good son. All I want is something to go with me before I leave this world to take with me.
I cannot afford a lawyer of my own either. Someone suggested to get in touch with the veterans administration. My Daughter says also My state could have different laws that their state have too. So all I know as of today I will continue to fight somehow until my last Breath.
My mother died the other day. She lived with my sister who was the main caregiver. I did what I could to help out but it was never enough for her.
I wrestle my demons daily, yet none of that matters. I went to see mother in hospital and was starred down and not even spoken to. Mother was put in hospice and I found out from an aunt miles away some days after the fact. She died that night before I was able to go see her. I have asked the funeral director for a private viewing to pay my respects. I cannot bring myself to go to the funeral and have daggers shot my way.
I feel my respects have been paid. Let the tongues wag as they may…I have no regrets. My mother in law passed away a week ago. My husband is the second oldest of 5, and had a very strained relationship with his mother.
They never told my husband his mother was even sick, just sent a text with a picture of her in a coma with a message that said mom is dying if you even care. She passed 30 minutes later and we are 3 hours away.
My husband, being the responsible person he is, called a funeral home, got her body moved there, and was paying for the cremation. So here were are a week later, trying to lay my mother in law to rest. I never got along with my scumbag sister. No one liked her, literally. My Father wrote her out of his Will long ago but had not foreseen being pre-deceased by my Mom so his life insurance was never updated.
Life insurance doesnt go by Wills so it doest matter if Satan was written out of the Will. There really are reasons no one liked her, trust me. Half of his life insurance which was actually his pension from 40 years of work is wasted because shes a selfish stupid idiot. I hope her death is slow and painful. That would somehow be a little ray of ight in all this tragedy. That and when I get to flush her ashes down the toilet.
My brother was always nasty to me because he thought I was spending my moms money. For five years she was completely incapacitated and could barely move her own wheel chair. A woman was hired to take care of her in the day time while I worked. She had lots of money tucked away but I never touched it.
It took her income and all of mine to keep her out of a nursing home. But I never touched cds or savings only her social security. He came close to hitting me while he was screaming at me. My Mother in law just died today. She was in a Hospice for about 4 months. My Husbands three kids had nothing to do with her for years. They all started coming around to visit her.
I thought that was strange. Why didnt they see her when she was well and happy? Know I feel they think they are all special know and they want attention from the whole family.
I asked my Husband why they did this. He got angry at me. I am the youngest of 6. My parents died 5 months apart and Young. My siblings and I have never been close,. I have extreme anxiety and panic attacks. I have no support.
I will never trust these ppl again. My parents would be devastated. Both my parents died 6 months apart unexpectedly. My sister and i are trustees of the Estate. Two hour after my mom died my sister fell and broke her femur and is still in lots of pain after two surgeries. He tells everyone that my dad said that he could have all the tools etc. My dad was a restore of cars. Miss my mom and dad! What should i do to mend things or just go on being without my sister?
I am trying to understand the behaviour of my step-sister, who had recently became a widow — with 4 children under her care. I want to know if her behaviour could be link to grief or is it just an excused for her to get away with bad behaviour. The child stayed with us for the past 6 years and when my step-sister wanted her child back, we dutifully returned her child back to her.
And on the final day at the in-laws house, before my mum returns back home, my step-sister punched her, in front of all her children and even disowned her father. One month after the attack, we tried to get a 3rd-party to mediate the situation, to reconcile. However, there was no remorse on her part. Now my step-sister alienates her children from us, from her in-laws as well because they told the police the truth about how she flew into a rage without provocation and assaulted my mother and she blames us for her actions.
She even denies attacking my mother, saying that its self-defence. I am still trying to understand where we went wrong. Did we gave her stress when we offer to get her a place of her own? Did we caused her anger when we plan to relocate nearby to get close to the child we love for 6 years? All we did was showed love and affection for her child, that was it. Did those actions warrant such retaliation from her?
My brother overdosed a week before Christmas. I tried to help him many years ago when nobody cared. I just could not help anymore. He kept going back to heroin. I have not been in touch with my family in over 15 years and they want money. I offered to give I am upset because the was no obituary, and they basically threw him away. My sister never came to my house to get the money. After all these years I resent they have the nerve to ask for money.
They only cared about themselves. I would have gladly given them the money. People told me I was a fool after all these years, they need my help and I was going to do it. My sister basically told me to screw myself. My mother died January 22, She had a 9 month battle of lung cancer that was very aggressive. After driving myself crazy for years and going to therapy I realized that, and that my sister and aunt are a bit narcissistic as well.
This led to them having a very codependant relationship. I never blamed her for focusing on my sister and her kids all these years, and admittedly when I became an adult I distanced myself from her to avoid the constant drama they kept in her life. After years of watching her clean up after my sister and my aunt I just quietly stayed on the back burner, and I feel like I never got to have the relationship I wanted with my mom because of all this.
Nevertheless, I stayed around constantly getting my hopes crushed that my mom and I could connect. I finally decided that I needed to cut ties and try to focus on the family I wanted to start with my husband, and then my mom got sick in April.
I stayed and helped out but my ex stepdad actually moved back in and assumed the role of caregiver for a while. My aunt came and went and my sister stayed away due to their constant fighting. While I came and helped often after work, she showed up only on occasion.
To make matters worse I quit my job and I tried to help her but she refused, we fought and she made it very clear she did NOT want me to move in. I still was there but after long she just seemed to give up. She would tell me I was controlling her and I had no compassion. She was doing seemingly well for a while, she just seemed to not want to put any effort into getting better I was just so frustrated it seemed like all she wanted was pitty.
I wanted so badly for her to feel better all she would do is lay in bed, and all the doctors would say is her treatment was doing well so she should try to get back to her life. She was so weak and tired and I tried to get her to eat well, do physical therapy, but she refused. It was like she was waiting for permission from a doctor to live her life, and if that was the end of it all I wanted was for her to enjoy it a little before she left. I saw how tired and absolutely depressed she was and she always said she was tired of being in that bed.
Before long we found out that it had spread to many more places including her brain. She spent Christmas in the hospital and for over two weeks my husband and i juggled being there for her, working, and maintaining both hers and our household. I also suffered a miscarriage in the process.
During this whole process we wanted to make sure she was never alone, either my husband and I, or one of her four friends were there day and night. She ended up having a stent in a bile duct between her liver and pancreas that was blocked by a tumor, by that point she probably never ate more than calories a day, she stayed dehydrated, and she had constant acid reflux, nausea, cramps, vomiting and would not have a bowel movement.
It was hell on her and the procedure took alot out of her. When we got her home that week she lost the use of her legs. My husband used the rest of his sick leave and we stayed with her, we had a portable potty chair but with the use of her legs gone, we had to both pick her up and place her on it, which was excruciatingly painful for her, so was a bed pan.
Having discussed her situation, my mother was still very much mentally present, and she agreed to hospice at home. My sister had started to come around but the caregiving was still largely up to me and my husband. Even though, wherever we went or in the hospital my mom constantly insisted for me to grab her cash, or take her card to pay for whatever, my husband and i always refused for the specific purpose of avoiding being accused of taking advantage.
We get to the hospital and every doctor I come across just looks at me funny as if to say, why is she here other than for us to comfort her? While I admit I understand the stigma a place like that holds, she was gonna suffer badly at home. Still i told her we will do whaatever she wants, and she agrees to go to the facility.
I finally get her to agree to a catheter to lessen the pain of changing her so much. And of course, her sister, whenever she comes up there, is causing all kinds of trouble for the staff. My mother gave me medical authority, I tell them to please disregard her because I know for fact my mother has no such allergy. My husband spends the night with her and the next morning the nurses tell us she will probably go that day.
My sister, my aunt and I are holding onto her on her bed when she gives her last breath. The next day my sister is all about getting preparations done and my aunt wants to come along. We go to the funeral home and try to get things done but neither of us are financially prepared for this.
She comes along, not knowing any of this to address her accounts. She is just so helpful all of a sudden. We get that handled and her funeral went smooth.
The lawyer comes over and discusses the will. She said my aunt had the opportunity to move in for 6 months, and the first right to buy her house, for the full value. She left the estate to me. Im being made to feel that becsuse i dont have children yet, im not deserving of half of everything. My husband is in the military, and had a connection with my mom over their guns. She had never expressed an interest in guns one day in her life, while my mom and husband went to the range together.
We all said when she got better we would go, so we decided to go have a drink and celebrate her. When I said that, my aunt and sister acted like I might as well have spat on her grave.
All I said was this was all too heavy too fast and I just want to have a chuckle with her friends. Honestly my deepest worry the minute that she was getting really bad was that I knew they were going to be at my back as soon as she passed and I was right. This family has always been terribly broken and now I am struggling just to keep my sanity.
All I want to do was mourn my mother in peace but now I have to worry about who wants what from me. I have been having my every move watched and judged since I began taking care of her and especially now. I know my mother desperately wanted the family come together before she died but I kind of just want to get her estate handled and cut ties. Why do people have to be so manipulative?
Is there a side to this I am missing? Am I being very insensitive or inconsiderate? I am one of 8, my mom dies a year ago Thanksgiving.
For over 14 years I would drive from one coast of Florida to the other at least every 6 weeks. She was no an easy person to get along with, in fact had she been bringing up kids today DFS would have taken all of us away with the crazy things she did.
Anyway she got breast cancer that then hit her bones, for years I keep telling her that if she did not write down what she wanted done that the fights would be ww3 and ruin the family as messed up as it is and was.
So as in most cases one sister said that a son can not care for a mother, I told her I could do anything that was needed even if it was to clean her butt. It was a medical procedure to me, no my moms butt. Over a year time the one sister set up fights with the other sons.
One night I was there for a few nights, with an other sister due to come over in 4 days to take over. I had taken her to the doc and she got some shots that helped with her pain. I was so happy to see her move about making her own bed, getting her own food. WOW reported to this to the sister due to take over the watch for me. I get a call from the one who wanted to control every thing saying how wrong I was and that I needed to leave right then and there.
I went to my mom and said M—- just told me to leave, she said please stay, I said fine but she had to get M—— off my back.
Then for 2 months more before she died M—— had all the accounts her name out on them and told her me and an other brother who also spent a great deal of time caring for her when all the rest never set foo one time in her house for over 10 years. So I had it put in my face that the will was changed and mother moved 75, that was to go to me into the one mean sister names along with everything in the house.
I told my mother time and again the nightmare would happen and it did and now you have 8 brother and sister not talking except in clans. My Mom passed in and a year later my Dad followed in I am the youngest of 8 children and my folks left the home to me.
However one of my brothers wanted to use the family home to offset loss of his business he has always had grand ideas that never amounted to much and contacted me regarding his wishes.
When I expressed that I will not involve the home in a business matter he immediately turned against me and tried to rally my remaining siblings against me. I loved my parents so and took care of them and we had a great relationship. In my family I have been known as the one who was selfless and would help anyone in my family during times of need. I even had to go as far as blocking him from my phone and cutting off all ties to keep from him badgering me and the same has been true for other members of our family.
My mother passed away unexpectedly the day after Christmas. My mom and I were extremely close, talked, texted or saw each other daily. She was my best friend.
My sister is 6 years older than myself, she lives about 3 hours away from where we live. Got the news that Mom had passed about 9am on Tuesday morning, we were all shocked. I rushed to her house and cried over her body still lying there waiting to be picked up by the funeral home.
Our step dad was home and he is the one who found mom deceased. I spoke with my sister that morning and i was a basket case, have been for the last week…my sister however was in no hurry to get to town. She left all of the responsibility of planning moms service on me and our step dad.
I was the one who had to pick out her clothes and music and pictures and everything else, AND make sure step dad was eating, taking his meds, had something nice to wear to serve ce, got his hair cut, etc…. I am so very mad at my sister for not being here to help us deal with this. Mom died Tuesday morning, my sister finally arrived in town late that Thursday evening.
Services were Friday and she left to go home Saturday morning….. My parents were 88, independent but in failing health. My mother was diagnosed with end stage pancreatic cancer is June, but suddenly my father deteriorated. They called me — I dropped everything and went to look after them. I had been shopping and trying to help them for quite a while. I knew what they liked, and I did things quietly and respected their wishes. My father went down hill quickly, then two weeks later fell at 2am and broke his hip.
He was diabetic, had a heart condition and had been kept going on medication for years — he had been a highly respected doctor. Eventually in the morning the dr and ambulance took him to hospital. He died two days laterth June. My mother started to deteriorate — I sent my son away so that I could be with her, my sister went to the Bahamas…. By the time I got back she had really deteriorated. We had agreed that my mum would then come to me, as I had a lovely room with open bathroom.
My mother wanted to come to me — and was so happy to be here, my sister then tried to be all loving…?!. My mother and I had a wonderful last week together…. My sister had the morphine….. My mother hated taking medication, for her to ask for morphine meant it was serious. On the Monday I managed to get a place in a fantastic hospice, my sister threatened me if I took my mother there….
My mother was so happy to be there — it was so peaceful, she had no more pain and she was comfortable. Before the morphine took hold my mother grabbed my hand looked me in the eye and said a heartfelt Thank You, it had been such a privilege to be able to help her. Death, a good death, is a quiet peaceful loving process. There is a lot more to this story, but my lovely mum passed away two days later.
Within three months I lost my beloved parents, and my brother and sister. I just tried to do my best for my parents, now I am completely alone and struggling, the people you should be able to turn to, to support each other — are the ones accusing me of unspeakable things…. I am beyond shocked. Bereavement is one thing, and I am desperately sad that my parents are gone, but I am pleased that they are not suffering, and that they had a good and loving life together 60 years!
But the loss of my brother and sister on top of it makes the pain unbearable. On top of that I am struggling financially. She sent an email saying my father wanted to disinherit me! I had been given a house — she claims credit for that too.
My mother told me that they wanted to split their legacy evenly. My 15 year old son observed that my sister is most upset that they ultimately chose me to care for them — again their choice not mine. I know one thing…. I was sole carer for my dad for 5 years until he passed away of cancer, the whole time my mum,brother and two sisters came nowhere near. P, let me start with how sorry I am for the pain this situation is causing you, your wife and by extension, your family.
The only behaviour you have control over is your own…. I urge you and your wife to seek grief support to help you with this part of the grieving process… all relationships change after a loved on has died.
Contact the funeral home they often can refer you to ressources. My father died in September of after a 4. His definition of help was to have a 5 minute phone call per day he lived 2. When he did come down, supposedly to help me, he would go out for the day which meant more drinking and then come back and drink a handle of vodka within a day. His idiot gf more on this in a minute moved down and they got a place maybe 10 minutes down the road.
He would literally come over for 5 minutes each day, chug like beers, and by beers I mean 24 ounce 8. One day he was over, I hear the liquor cabinet open in the kitchen, I go out and there is my brother, drinking a bottle of booze that my dad loved.
My dad sees what I am doing and goes plan on getting drunk tonight I see to which I had to explain what I just witnessed. Lets just say my dad was pissed, he wanted him pulled over for a DUI, to remove him from the will, the house and the life insurance. He came back a day or 2 later and my dad told him, you are an alcoholic, you steal booze that is not yours and then act like that, you need help. A month went by, he no longer drank at the house, and from what I hear he was drinking in his car.
When my dad was dying actively, I went to plan the funeral, I had the prearrangements done, but I knew we needed to finalize it. I asked my brother to come help me plan the funeral and I got a nope, I am not doing that, so besides taking care of my dad by myself I had to plan his funeral by myself. Even better was it was still just 5 minutes a day at the house before he went to his place. He died on a Friday morning, it sucked. Her response was how dare they, I do not want them here.
We started to go through the house and decide who gets what, one thing my brother wanted was out grandfathers and he asked to have it because he was the only one at the time to be able to go to his funeral. His gf was then demanding she gets the washer and dryer because they needed it, again I told her she has no right to demand anything.
Now to flash forward to just this week, we all moved to NC, I was torn apart and broken down, but we shared a storage shed where everything from the house was stored.
I went back north for 24 hours for an interview at a hospital and when I get home, my brother decided to enter my place and steal items that were important to me.
I go to pull items out of the storage shed and I am told I no longer have access to the unit, the unit where I had personal items and every other item from the house was. He, along with his stupid wife, felt that they could steal everything because they did nothing but they deserved it all. Ill take care of it my way, I still have to close the probate case out, so I still have some power, and I am going to make him finally realize what type of piece of crap he is.
Watch out for your family, they will rob you in seconds flat for reasons that no one will ever be able to explain. My Mom passed away yesterday at age She was in assisted living.
I am grieving in my own way here in Florida. Mom was in Nevada. Right now I hate my siblings. No one who is attending lives farther than me. My parents dad is 12 yrs gone , were very strict Catholics.
All arrangements were paid in advance years ago, so this is not a money thing. Somebody tell me, can I skip the whole function? I am not on bad terms with anyone, just have strong feelings about my poor Mom. They would have cancelled just about any thing for one of us.
My uncle who was like a father to me, since his brother — my dad- never did recently passed away, and my in-laws never contacted me to express any condolences, not even a card.
I am going through this exact same thing right now. Sadly my dad suddenly passed away a month ago. My mom also passed away 7 years ago. I took care of both of them when my mom got brain cancer I was her full time caregiver. After my mom passed away my dad needed help because he was so lost when my mom passed. So I lived with my dad and took care of him.
I was also in charge of their finances completely. My name was listed as joint owner of all their bank accounts. I did everything for both of them. They were my life. I would have done it all over again. I am so broken right now and devastated. I was told by his pension depart that i had to report his death to the bank.
So i did and right away the bank made me sole owner of all his accounts. My parents had a living trust made many years ago. The trust stated the house is to be divided by all of us 4 siblings total. We are all trustees but my half sister took the main role. Her and my other siblings are trying to force me to hand over all the money to put in a trust account under my sisters name.
I was advised by the bank to seek legal counsel. I agreed and was going to pay for the lawyer. I still live in the house and am paying all the bills. I also work now. I feel like my sister just wants the control.
She is my dads step child and she was estranged from him and us for years before he died. Now all of a sudden that money comes into play she is around? I am not handing over anything to them until i am told i have to by a lawyer or judge. She stalks me everyday practically trying to get me to give this money. She is stressing me out. I am grieving for my dad and all they care about is money. They think they can tell me what to do and bully me into doing this. If my dad wanted that money to go to a living trust he would have titled the account a living trust bank account.
So yes i am going through some bullshit right now. My mom passed away about 6 and a half years ago. Now my dad is sick. I have 4 other siblings and some of them are playing head games with me.
Some are actually saying I am going to be murdered. I have some making up huge lies. I have cried so many times that I think I am dehydrated. My daughter is starting school this morning and I am on zero sleep. I also teach my youngest one at home……Some of the lies are me having an sick relationship with my brother. Its gone that far…… Its like game of thrones. I wish I had a dragon….. Stick to your guns. I would give them nothing. If she continues with the harassment get a restraining order on her.
She used to do the same to my grandma and was always upset that my grandma never got remarried after my grandpa died of a heart attack. In December, I was still feeling a shock so massive that every day I woke up I still felt like I was barely in this world.
That not-there-numb feeling that refused to diminish for so long. Even talking about it now makes me afraid it might return. My mom is gone she did not pass she was put down. My 89 father started a relationship with a 32 year old housekeeper. April my mom wrote me a letter stating she needed to come live with me in another state that my father was having an affair. That night she supposedly tried to kill herself by diving face first down a flight of stairs onto a cement floor.
My father who can barely hear states he heard her hit from the floor above. Her note was taken as a suicide letter. The previous year she begged me to get her away from him. The months prior he had taken over her weekly call with me controlling it. The suicide attempt gave her a crack rib, internal bleeding in her leg, and a skull fracture. They put her in a locked down ward for 6 weeks.
I spoke with her once she was heavily drugged. What she did not take the housekeeper sold off at garage sales. Mom was relocated to a nursing home apartment setup a mile from her original home. She had 2 falls there. Then one 3 weeks ago. That one fractured her skull causing a brain tear and shift.
The apartment was setup to kill her No padding sharp hard furniture, no night lights she was required to have 24 hour care as she was a high fall risk and a suicide risk. Her caregivers were cut back at night when she was most active. I asked my dad why did you not bring her home. He told me he could have but she would have thrown a fit. And could have lived for 5 more years. He was advised to divorce her by his doctor. As she was a financial burden. We moved her to a local nursing home hospice to dry her out no IV pain meds it took a week she moaned groaned and cried.
Mom passed with me and my ex wife at her side telling her I am sorry. My sister in law strips the house and my brother helps. I lost track of the arguments I had with my dad, brother, sister in law. The only option they face my mother was the dirt. The grief it puts you through is unbearable. My sister and I were my mothers of 7 kids. I tried very hard to have everyone included in dividing everything up. Everyone in the families, except mine uses it. Only three are expected to pay the taxes because the other owners say that they are their guests.
I went down there once this year. I have tried to make things right with them but when a couple get together they do nothing but start everything up again. It really hurts and it is effecting my wife and kids, and I know the stress of it will kill me. I am consumed daily by the way they treat me. I lost my sister in then my Dad on , I never had the chance to grave and now I lost my Mom, I was never very close to any of them But, l loved all of them. Now hear I am alone with no one to tell me what is going on.
Not my other sister or my Brother. My Grandmother passed away in February. We went and placed the order in March with 1, Well getting close to when they should be ready I find out my MIL, the daughter of whom I consider to be my grandmother had cancelled the order 1 month after the order was made, took the money and spent it. Looking for advice of what to do she keeps saying she will get it back to us…..
But nothing this far. I can relate to all of your experiences. I just lost my father. The infighting, jealousy, rage, anger amongst siblings has been unreal. These things did not suddenly appear but must have been smoldering for decades. The reality is that you know you may never see each other again.
My pastor said death does one of two things — brings you closer or rips the family wide apart. I think these things start in early childhood. Parents play favorites and pit one child against another. The jealousy and hurt is always there. Death brings everything to the surface.
You can forgive but you want to walk away for good. And just like seeing your parent for the very last time, you know that you may not be seeing your siblings every again either.
It really is…The End. Hi julie im experiencing all that you talked about im the oldest daughter of. Close to my fathers funeral day. But it has open my eyes to the fact the sister that i was more closes to was the one who hurt me the most after i subble across a conversation her, my mother another sister and my very own daughter were discussing the care i gave my father before his.
And remind you none of the parties never really helped with my fathers care how dare they say theses cruel things that hurted me to my core thank God i am a faithful woman i will continue to hold my head high knowing i did my best at taking.
Care of my father until he was called to his eternal rest. But it hurted me so deep that i have consider to not ever contact or be in their presence ever again in this life i know just how you felt God bless.
But it has open my eyes to the fact the sister that i was most closes to was the one who hurt me the most after i stubble across a conversation her, my mother another sister and my very own daughter were discussing the care i gave my father before his. My son died recently as a result of brain tumors. I was told by his wife that I was not allowed to visit him in hospital because I am not immediate family.
The tumors spread and he was admitted to the local hospice where he died the day after he was admitted. They have been spreading sick rumours about me over the years so I feel that I have been face to face with evil and hope the heartache will go away. I thank God for my good friends who have loved and supported me especially Margaret….
Our grandmother passed in May. She had been diagnosed with dementia and had to be put in an assisted living center and eventually into a nursing home.
My aunt became power of attorney since she was the nearest realitive. My mother offered to help as much as she could. She lived almost miles from her mother and had some health issues as well. However, she offered to do what she could. My mother and my aunt were always close. Never any problems between them. My mother also talked tto her mother every weekend and was able to visit her before her passing.
When my grandmother did pass my aunt called my mother and was very hateful to her. Needless to say my mother was very hurt by this. I dont want you there, but lets get together another time? My aunt did not give my grandmother a proper funeral, did not put an obit in any of the papers, sold my grandmothers house a month before she died she had poa without telling anyone and then on top of that, my aunts daughter bought and closed on a house four days before my grandmother died. Where did she get the down payment from?
That was what she told my mom. My aunts behavior in all of this is just baffling. We feel it is decietful. We would not have treated our aunt this way so why do this to us. Deny your own mother a funeral and not allow any family attend the burial. All of us wanted to be there. My cousin was ready to drive 14 hours to come here. Any advice would be appreciated. We thought about calling the attorney my grandmother used when she was alive.
To be honest the only thing we want are answers. We could give two cents about money or monetary things. None of expected anything after her passing. She was not a rich woman but we want an accountability of where her things went. I am so so sorry your are going thru this.
I would not hesitate to contact the attorney your grandmother used. This stinks to high heaven. Your aunt needs to carry out the wishes of your grandmother and whatever the will stated if there was one or it needs to go through the legal process of going thru probate.
Your aunt needs to provide an accounting log of where the money has gone even if there is none. You should not feel one ounce of guilt, especially if your grandmother had a will. It hurts so much. I would say contact the lawyer, if you are told no will, I would seek legal advise with another firm to what your options are.
My son and I are currently living with my mother, which really is not enough room for the 3 of us. There are section 8 housing program set up in most state that will help low income or no income family or single mother to get housing. But it is will help. You can also call church or outreach centers to help with bills some will only give a small amount so you might have to call a few diffrent once to get all the help u can.
I just found out im pregnant i have sceduled a doctors appointment but they cant get me in for another 3 weeks.
I recently lost my job due to being hospitalized due to an illness so i had to give up my apartment. The father of my baby it didnt work out and i lost all contact with him. I have been looking for a job and cant find one. Government agencies are being bombarded with emergency aid requests and are currently backed up. The best thing to do is reach out to shelters and church communities until you hear back from the government regarding your applications. Hi my name is julie I am a single mother of two a 7year old boy and 5year old girl I am about to be homeless in a month maybe less I have been looking for a job for almost a year I have went to interviews and never got called back.
The only thing I can do right now is pray to the lord above so I can revieve a little help I do not want to sleep in my car with my kids and not even that I have no gas to get around please someone help me I have been on the waiting list for almost two years for housing please someone help me I cant go to my family for help.
Please someone help me and my kids. Check out local homeless shelters in the area, as well as churches who help those in need. My grandfather who was all i had just passed away a week ago. I am currently looking for a job but in these times it is not easy to find anything and im not going to find something making enough to pay rent right away. How can i get the help when Section 8 is no longer available? I dont care about myself i just want my kids to be safe and i know a shelter will not provide any shelter for my children please help me!!
I am a single working mother of three children who is in of financial assistance. Can you please let me know who can assist me? Hi my name is christi i am My ex is literally kicking me and her out I. No job or no money. Hello, I am single mother of three children.
I have been unemployed for eight months. I am desperate need of rental assistance. I have tried to obtain HUD assistance and Section 8 assistance, my state is nit accepting any new applications and will not be for at least two years.
I am currently enrolled in school,but I employment and I need help paying for my rent before my children and myself are evicted. I am a single mother of 4. I live in arizona. I have been staying with my sister and just found out they are being locked out of their apt so my kids and i have nowhere to go.
I cannot find anything to help us out since I dont want my kids on the street. Any help is appreciated.. Hey im 16, i have a 2year old son and i live in chicago. Ive been staying with my god mother for about 4 months. Her house is fairly aceptable but lately she has een asking for alot. I had a job but had to quit due to harassment by a supervisor. In jan ill b attending Malcolm x college, takin up ged classes!
My mom recieves welfare assistance for me but i dnt even get it…. My name is Natalie im 16 an i have a 8 month daughter i am with her father but i live in a 2 br apartment with My mom her bf my 2 brothers and my sister a dog and a cat. Single mother and moving place to place. All I have is my cash assistance and our things. If anyone can help me plz that would be great and helpful I live in Philadelphia pa.
I am a single mother of two little girls ages four and two and I need help with finding a place. I was kicked out of my home last night and found a place to stay for the night but after today I will be on the street with my children and its too cold for them to be out there. And my youngest one is already majorly sick.
Could you please please email me back. I am a single mother with three children and one on the way. Ive been the victim of domestic on several occasions after my fiancee lost his job so We are currently living back with my mother and her boyfriend. Good Afternoon I am 22 years old and homeless plus pregnant and cant find a job in my town i need help finding a place in oswego ny could you please thank you very much.
The problem i have is that i dont make enough money from my social security to get into a place or to go out here and buy me a reliable vehicle i am disabled and 44 years old with right kidney failure since i was 21 a severe back injury that will soon criple me and i cannot work due to this problemn.
I sure could use some emergency cash for a car for me and my two children just would help us. We currently pay half the rent on a house I share with my mother and two siblings.
I overheard my mother talking to her exboyfriend on the phone a couple of nights ago, and she said she was going to move out by February. Our lease is supposed to be until August. Do you know of any agencies that will assist me with a security deposit? My car was repossessed and my bills have since been turned over to collections. Is there anyone who could give me a loan that I can pay back in small payments?
My name is kayla. Im 20 and i am about to give birth any day now. Ive had places to go set up but each time at last second it falls through. And i have a kitten. Im supposed to be getting cash assistance but not for a few more weeks. I have nowhere to go with my baby when she is born. Im in florida and i already tried section 8 but i couldnt even get on the waiting list. Im a single mom of 2 boys ages 5 and 1. You made your bed so get up, stop dreaming and do something about your situation!
I am a mother of a 4 year old and i am staying with my parents but they use drugs and are dirty and i need a better place for my daughter. Hi, my name is cealest im 19 years old and im going to have a baby i leave with my uncle but he dosent know that i am pregagnt. But when he dose i know for sure he will kick me out i have try every where to look for help to get into a house. If i could get into a house then it will give me the chance to keep my baby it i could ask for anything more so if there any chance of geting a place i would love the help.
I am 17 and my daughter is 10 months I currently live with my parents in Adelanto California. My parents have problems and I really need to move out. I am unemployed and I really need help. I am a 27 year old mother of three, at the current time I am living with my mother in a one bedroom apartment.
Has anyone been able to find grants? So now I have to sneak around and hide so they will not find out that we are living here. I am a single mother of 2 kids a! I have no job no money and really need a housing grant of some sort. I am in a dyer need of a place to stay and a job.
I just need help I have been looking all over for jobs and everything and not getting any help. I can practically do anything. Can someone please help me I applied online for section 8 and they said they have never received my information and I paid my money. So I do not know what to do so I need help please. Hi, I am a single mother in need of immediate financial help, i am currently living with my parents well going to college grants.
I am 19 and have a 7 month old daughter. My current living situation has become very negative and unstable, the verbal abuse is overwhelming. Although they treat my daughter amazing, i cannot take the hurtful degrading things they say.
Another huge fight today, looking for a way out. I am 19 I have a 2 year old son me and the baby daddy still together we are both in school and have no income were we staying with his mom, his stepdad, my dad, me, him, his brother, and the toddler we are in a 3 bedroom house.
Im 19 years old i have 3 boys and im a single mother. Im living at my parents right now and they want me out. I tried section 8 its a 2 yr wait i live in idaho if i can ger any sort of help it would be great. I have two kids and is pregnant with my third life to me right now is a struggle. I need some assistance on finding. I am living house to house with family and friends and I am a full-time student who works part time on the weekend please consider…….
I live in Philadelphia Pa. Hi I am blessed with 2 daughters one is 4 other one is 2. I am a single mother of 5 children. Homeless and in need of help. These agencys are a joke and it takes 30 days or more to get into a homeless shelter.
My life is crumbling from underneathe my feet. I need help bad and like yesterday. Housing authority takes to long and all the gov. Bills piling up and stress is my obstacle. Hi, my name is Kiara and I am 18 years old. I have a 1 year old son and is currently living with my mother. My mom is having problems of her own and i gets no help from anyone. Hello I am 22years old. I have a 4yr old babygirl. I used to be a victim of domestic violence. I work minimum wage, and my mom is bipolar and schizophrenic.
What should I do? I am now looking for a new home, something affordable tho that will fit us all in. Can barely provide for myself. I need something good to happen to me now as I am doing something good for others. Please please help me! Hi My name is Jacinta, and I just have exhausted all of my options. I have been living with my mom and am now homeless due to the fact that she is not an ideal person. I had to leave.
Now me and my son 4 months old, live in the car. I have no job and bad credit. I applied for child care vouchers in my county but not eligilble because I receive cash assistance.
Which right now is just barely covering gas, food, and baby diapers. I am breaking down more and more each day. Wondering to myself he would be better off with another family. But adoption is just not what i need i just need some help. It hurts everyday trying to do the right things but it just not coming together.
I dont have any information on what I am suppossed to do. First time mom needs help on sitution struggle. I am a single mother of one. I have nowhere to go and i worry about where my child and i will go. I do have a part time job but hardly make enough to even buy diapers. Hello my name is Ann, I am a single mother of 2 and six pregnant with my third. Me and my kids have moved from city to city and now is in a different state.
I need somewhere stable to live that would work out for us. I am going to school here but the transportation and lack of child care has me to where this is my last week. I just need a complete stable home for my children that I can afford where theres good transportation and things educational for them to do. I get SSI but has worked on and off since But my biggest issues is child care and transportation. Child care would be easier to get if I can find a job I can get to with no problem and stay there longer than a few months.
I have nowhere else to go. I have try to apply for different apartments but nothing. I really need to get out of here. My son needs space here. I applied for public housing about two years ago and nothing. Please if there is any help available. My email is lsosa gmail.
I am in desperate need, I have a 8 yr old daughter. I am currently attending school. Recently I found out the money I was giving to my boyfriend to pay rent was being used else where. I am 3 months behind on rent and he left. I have no family, just my daughter. If someone who would like to help I sure would love it it!.
And I would pay it forward once I can and give and donate to someone who is in my place. I have no family and I need help with renting a place as of righte now I live with a friend of my exs.
I tried doing tanf but they refuse to take me and its to far to walk to. Thank you in advance. I am currently 7mths pregnant with my first child. Moved back in with my mom and going to school full time, and i am not happy or comfortable with the living situation. I really want and need to get on my own again but i have no job to do so.
I have heard about HUD and was wondering if i could apply for it now even though the baby isnt here yet? Hello my name is kara and i have a 3 year old daughter.
I am currently living with her grandmother on her fathers side. I lost my job in october which meant the repossesion of my vehicle and unable to help pay bills right now although i have looked all over at places within walking distance or on bus routes. This has put a huge burden on the grandmother and she has now taken the phone away from me to where i am not able to reach anybody among many other things on a daily basis.
Now that i can not pay she does not want me here and i feel like im going through a psychological hell everyday and im dragging my daughter through it. I need help to get out on my own and to get a job and take care of my daughter. I know beggers can not be choosers but i really do not want to have to go the the jesus house it would be so scary for me which im sure it is for anybody. Im praying for a miracle in my life right now and if you could send me any information that may be usefull i would greatly appreciate it.
Thank you so much. I am a friend of a young lady who is in an abusive relationship. She as a two year old son. She is currently looking for employment but has no transportation and on can get someone to watch her son for a few hours which makes it difficult to job search. She has tried section 8 but there is a waiting list. Most of the shelters are full and not friendly or dirty.
She gets some state assistance i think. If anyone can help me lead her in the right direction i would greatly thank you.. I have 4 children. My name is jaime and I am looking to relocate back to cleveland, ohio to be with my family and find work. I have three children who live with me in GA currently. We need to get our own place because we are temporary living with family and we will be needing to get back to ohio. I have a criminal back round back when I was 15 years old.
I am currently 25 and I have a family and I am living right. I have a associates degree in business and I am currently working on my bachelor degree. I want to work but I have no luck with my back round. I need some kind of suggestions on what to do.
If someone can guide me in the right direction or help with names of agencies that can help me and my family i would really appreciate it. I will leave my email address so someone can get in contact with me.
Thank you so much for reading thank you. Hi I am a single mother of a 7 year old, he is the love of my life. Recently me and my son were forced to move in a shelter and unfortunately u get only a 14 day stay so i dont know where to go from here except my car.
My father died this past year and my mom has ran off and refuses to tell me where she lives due to her new boyfriends race issues. Im bi-racial my mom is white my dad was black. I live in south Mississippi i have been applying for jobs after jobs and no 1 is hiring and me and my son dont need much just a place to become stable again and eventually become successful.
My sons father has never been apart of his life i have done everything alone. I have tried everything to get him to help me raise our child and he refuses and is constantly runing around the u. I currently live with my parents, but they have their own problems, and I really need to move out. I hate having to give my parents more problems.
Im currently going to school, and I lost my job. I really need help please. I live in the state of Texas. Hello my name is Myiesha a mother of 2. Really need some assistance for me and my kids. Were homeless with no where to go. As of right now where living from pillow to post, no transportation nor job. Just looking for a place so I can get on my feet For my kids. Right now there all i got and im scared i might lose them to.
Have been living with my boyfriend. I have a 14 yr old son from prior marriage. I have no job or car. Hi im homeless mother in the state of Ga. I have no family here for support. I really need help! Can someone please help! I went threw a divorce in august and am now living with my parents. I need my own place. My son is almost two and I can no long have him depending on my parents considering im his mother.
Hello, I have an 8 month old baby boy and I am in need of any help I can get. My boyfriend is facing jail time, and the problem is I lost contact with him. The thing that worries me is that I was dependent of him. Or what if he flees? Thankfully I was able to find a room to rent and I have a job interview on two days from now.
The only cash I have on me right now is quickly running out. And also, I am a full time student and once I get a job assistance with child care is a must! I live in the state of New Mexico. What options do I have? I am the mother of a 27 yr old daughter. She has 2 children -5 and 7 yrs old.
This man is extremely verbally abusive to her. He fight with her constantly and puts holes in the doors with his fist. I am afraid for her. He is a bully and very irrational- He has had 9 jobs in 8 years. My daughter works but does not make enough money to go out her own. I unfortunately cannot help her- Is there anything out there that can help her leave this abusive relationship?
She lives in Suffolk County, New York-thank you. My name is Vanessa. I am currently 4 months pregnant and single. I have been applying for work and letting them know I am pregnant. I have one place that is consiering hiring me but working part time and minimum wage. I am living in whittier california with my mother but she is disabled and also needs help.
I would like to have a room that me n my baby can share.. Mom is sick and need some help. Im a 22 yr old mother with a 14 month old boy and a lil girl on the way in march.
If theres anyone who can help plzz respond back. I am a single mother of a two year old girl and am out of ideas I am currently staying on a friends couch but there are 5 people living in this one bedroom apartment and it has been made quite clear that we need to get out.
I live in Maine and all the shelters in the area are full. My name is kaycee im a sinvle mom of a 5 month old little boy in wichita kansas i have 2 prior evictions so jtz hrd for me to get a place im currently living with friends that are now moving to Texas nd me my son and boyfriend have no place to go.
We have came close to living on the streets. I have three young children at home. I need to get away from my ex husband. I have bad credit and evictions due to a past relationship that i finally got out of, but because of that I cant find anyone who will rent to me, I have the deposit but no where to go, can anyone PLEASE help me and my kids???? I live in pa lancaster county and ready to be evicted..
Nothing and my mom threatin to kick me out and call fwb. I am a 22 year old mother of 1, my son just turned 2. My credit is shot now due to all the bills, cc and being past due on the mortgage. I understand your frustrations and I feel for you.
I will be creating a resource for this soon. Hi Im a single mom of a two year old girl, currently living with my dad since I had to go to part time at work since I started college, wondering if there is any way I could get assistance with rent. Which state do you live in? This information will help us research the issue deeper to find an answer for you.
I understand not wanting to go to a shelter. However, until you can find something more permanent, I would advise you to seek shelter far away from your abuser. I know the idea of a shelter is not very appealing, but you must do something to get away from the torment you are experiencing.
This is only temporary. I am in need of emergency housing. I am a single mother of a 4 year old. We are homeless due to a controlling abusive relationship. If anyone has any advice please let me know. I have called multiple shelters but they are all full. My heart is broken and I am beyond stressed to capacity. It is astonishing to me that this man can own a ten million dollar jewelry store and strip mall, yet myself and my children have lived in poverty for so many years!
I have tried so hard to fight but no one will help he owes me so much but has played games and has gone for stretches as long as a year without giving us a penny. I wanna scream to the judge why is this okay how can you let this happen? I have no money, no resourcesss had to sell everything including my car to feed my kids and am in debt terribly because of his games and threats.
I have no place to turn. I live in illinois. I simply cannot believe that a judge has not made this man pay up! Georgetta, Thanks for your support. I would highly suggest it to anyone dealing with a deadbeat!
S based housing assistance centers. Hello, my name is jen and i am currently living with the father of my two children. We were once married and then he divorced me. But i ended up pregnant afterwards, and we got together again.
Hi my name is Dora. I live in Southern california! I have no job. I am still attending high school going to graduate early. So i want to get out of here because she keeps bashing me. Please please help me im very desperate. I am contacting help for my sister. She is recently employed and is in a motel in Norman ok. Her son is mentally ill and she cannot afford to live where she is. We are trying to find a boys home for my nephew. He is in need of help.
I also have guardianship of my 2 granddaughter. I am very concern for my nephews future. Thanks and have a nice day. I cannot turn to any of my family for help. If there are any resources that you can provide it would be greatly appreciated. I completely understand your situation and wish there was something more I could do for you at this time. Take a look at the grants available in your area we have a few on this site and see if there are any that you qualify for.
Unfortunately, we are in the process of upgrading the portion on our site that lists al of the available grants. Please get out of there. Even if you have to live in a shelter temporarily, please go. Statistics show that if you do not leave, it only gets worse. Living in a shelter is only temporary until you get back on your feet. My sister is divorced with 3 boys,and lives in AZ. She has 2 boys that are special needs children that require her care all the time accept when they go to school and development.
She is unemployed and there father is not working. She cannot work because of the kids, She does get money from the state to help provide, and the father has to pay child support but refuses to work. Can anyone pleease help! Living in NJ,cannot find a job thou I am trained as a dental assistant.
Its just me and my 6 yr old,living betweeen my parents and my boyfriend. Neither place is good 4 her or me. She wishes 4 our own place every nite. I failed my child and I pay dearly 4 it. Thanks to my own mother. I will do anything,anything to get out. Am Tasha my daughter and i are seeking a two bedrrom apartment or hous something on section 8 I currently stay with my ex but he moving in May and I cant move with him we have no family here. Hello im a single mother of 3 im in real bad need of your assistance i jst got out of a domestic violence relationship and i need help so bad so if you can please give me a call i would gladly appreciate it thank you.
Anyway, a program like this would really help me until I can get on my feet. Im 17 years old in i plan to move out my mother house. But I have a 12 year old autistic daughter, and there is no father involved. I am living in an area that is way above my means against my wishes simply because I have parents that took me in temporarily.
My parents are, of course, older and are unable to help anymore. Knowing this was temporary, I have planned where to move-a better cost of living and better availablity for the needs of an autistic child. I have run out of time and means. Does anyone have any idea of where I can get some kind of help? Hello-I am sending this message for my daughter which is in desperate need of housing for herself and her 14 month old son.
She is in a very bad relationship with her sons father. She has no transportation or job. She is in desperate need of housing, transportation and a job. She lives in Jefferson County AL. Any suggestions you have would be greatly appreciated. Hi my name is lucy iam 20 years old a single mom to a 11 mth girl part time student and currently unemployed.. He is no where in the picture and i have no help i quit my job 2 mths ago and i have no income and no government help i just need some advice please contact me at lucerovaz yahoo.
I am 32 and I have a son who is I am ned of housing ASAP. I am leaving a guy who is abusing things including me verbally, but he has hit me in the past. I have no money and no where to go.
Hi, my name is Nichole, 26, i have a 3yr old little girl and currently in chester county, pa. Basically, i NEED to get out of here. To say my family is dysfunctional is an understatement. More than anything i want to relocate to another state, preferably Tx, or in that general area. ANY information, ideas or advice would be most welcome and truly appreciated. I have a 2 year college degree. My husband left us and he was the one paying all the bills I stayed at home to raise our child.
I have not had a steady job in 4 years only worked in the summers. I was planning to enroll in a community college to get my grades up and. I have no one to help me. On top of that I still breast feed my baby and I feel so bad that things will change drastically for her.
Please give some advise on what to do. Hi, my name is Julie, I am 20 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I consider myself to be homeless, i live between my moms house, my dads house, and sometimes in my car, but I dont put my daughter in that situation ofcourse. But I am a single mom that does not receive child support.
I currently have a job, but dont start work til next week. In the mean time, I am trying to obtain any help that can be offered, Ive applied a few places for housing assistance but most want to check your credit by obtaining my CC information, which i do not have, if you can help me at all, please let me know!
Can you please provide me with information that will help me with housing and job assistance. I have a 2 yr old and a 4 yr old, and have left a mentally abusive marriage. I am looking to move to Conway Arkansas, and am hoping to do so by July. I have had to move 3 times one to the battered wives shelter, then to a friends house in Arkansas which I really wanted to stay but I couldnt afford it and had to rush to move.
Then I moved to New Jersey where right now but I need my own home for me and my boys. I am currently in an Online college and living on state assistance.
My name is Asia i am in dyer need of help. I have been abused raped all my life i am struggling mother of a two yr old boy. I am homeless with no where to go. I am currently in a very, very, depressing, guilty, betrayed, unhealthy, not loved, terrifying predicament alone, which scars me shitless im in total panick mode. My youngest is just 6months.
We only have until the 2nd of May to find help with our rent. We have been abandoned by my youngest sons dad. I have numerous physical problems and am waiting on a disability court date. With my physical limitations, all I have for income is the lil I make being a nanny for a family of 3 that the oldest 2 live with autism.
We have until April 30th to have all of our belongings out. I have called all over creation trying to get us someplace to stay and keep running into the same problem of income verification for renting an apartment. I would very much appreciate any help or assistance given. I am a single mom struggling with epilepsy and ptsd.
Any information you could give me would be such a blessing. I am a 28yr old single parent fulltime college student with a 10yr old daughter. I moved to a new city and living with my aunt for now, but I do think anyday now she will be telling me that she wants me to leave.
It is hard trying to find a job up here being I am a convicted felon since Listening to my mother telling me to take some charges for my sister who was in the military at the time and had a brand new baby girl. Now I am sitting here suffering with the choice I chose to make thinking I was doing the right thing.
Now I am in need of someone helping me and my daughter who are on the verge of being homeless. If there are any agencies or any information anyone would like to share feel free to post.. I am 25 yrs old and I have a 4 yr old son and twin 3month old girls. I am going through a divorce and just moved out of a shelter and back with my mother. I need help finding housing because there is really no room for us here and i have no where to go.
I am a single mother and a full time student I will be a senior in college in the fall. My children are 5 and 7.
Their father left a few months ago and he was the sole bread winner of the household. I would love some information to help me get some assistance.
Ima single mom i jst turned 20 yrs old i hve a 5 mnth baby.. Im 25 years ols and live in Dixon California. I live with my grandma who is I receive calworks but not enough for me and my son. My mother passed away 3 years ago and im basically on my own: I reallly want to gwt helped with finding an apt and helping me out to ay each months rent. I want to be in my own place juat with my baby boy. Hi me and my wife help girls who need a place to live who are having a baby or have a baby if you are age 9 to 18 we will give you a place to live and food to eat and a nice room for you and your baby with all the baby things you will need just give us a call at or email us at preshawk gmail.
Hi Barbara and Jessie. Thank you for such a wonderful gesture. I usually delete all personal information through comments, however, in this instance I will keep your email live on the site until I receive more information.
Just want to make sure this opportunity for single moms is legit. Please send the full information to george usemergencycashassistance. My oldest is 11yrs old and my youngest is 10mths old. I struggled with my oldest child financially and was afraid to commit to a new relationship when I met the father of my youngest child.
Its hard raising one child alone let alone two or more kids. I thought we would settle down and have a family, he made it seem as if he would help me and play an active role as a parent. I though he would help me get out of the projects where I live and we could have a nicer place to live with both of us working full time.
I waitied 10 years to make sure I was getting involved with a responsible person and that we could help and support one another. I thought I found the right person. We were together for two years when I found out I was pg.
Well needless to say, things fell apart. I thought to myself how could I be so stupid falling for it a second time!! I still live in the projects, struggling financially and working full time, also making sure I take care of my two kids. A nicer neighborhood would require a better paying job so I could afford to pay a higher rent. I tried looking for a better job but no one will hire me.
I am a single Mom of a wonderful 9 year old son. I lost my job in late January and still have not found work. The job market is horrible here in the quad cities. I am currently attending school and will have my degree by the end of November.
However, the home that we are living in is going to be put up for sale, so we have been asked to vacate by the end of September. Once I finish with school, getting a job in my field should be pretty easy especially with assistance from the school I am attending.
I, along with many of you do not have much of a family to count on. I have reached out to several family members who have basically turned their back on us and told me that they cannot help us.
Not sure what to do. So, like I said, I am going to school and attempting to find work, and have even applied for low income housing and awaiting a response. If anyone has any suggestions that would be awesome. Old single mother of an one year old little girl. Up untill two months ago I had been financialy cappable of steadily providing for my child and I. For a year I payed all our bills in full and on time, never late.
I thought i was making the best descion in my childs interest… I was sooooo wrong…. Last week my room mate was drunk when we came home.
He started tripping hard and tryd to kick in our bed room door. I baracated ourselves inside our room and called the cops…. The police made me and my baby leave and left him at the house with his kids… My lil girl and I have been homeless for almost a week now and honestly…..
I just dont know what to do…. I am so lost and scared…. I dont have any family here and her dad has never even seen her by his own choice…. The shelters didnt have enough room and now I am almost completely broke…. Between having to rent a storage unit and uhaul… Dipers ….
Milk and food untill we receive our food stamps…. Amy, I so fully understand your pain. I am a single mother with one child, 1 year old. I am currently living with my parents but am not able to stay for more than a month or so, I am currently a full time student trying to get my bachelors in Business Management and I am having a hard time finding work or the work is further away than I can travel.
My parents are doing everything that they can to help but They can only do so much. We have a 5 month old little girl and i have a 6 year old little boy from a previous relationship.
I resided in Gulfport, Ms. If anyone can help get me in contact with someone who can help i would really appreciate it. Help please I am a single mother of three children, ages 10,7, 4. I am a Army veteran living in Jacksonville, Fl and thinking of relocating simply because I can get NO help here finding a place to stay. I am feeling depressed most days and would like some feedback please!
Hi, My name is Ashley, I am also like many other women here a single mother, of a 5 yr old boy. Its been really hard since day one, I have never received not one child support payment from the father.
Right now we are homeless, my son and I sleep on the floor every night. I am 24 yrs old and fear that I can not pick up the pieces to our life by myself. I need help like yesterday! My son made me cry today when he told me.. I just want a better life for us both, im willing to work and do what I must in order to be the best mother I possibly can, I just need a start!
Hello, I am a single mother of two children. We were evicted from the apartment I was renting because I simply could not afford the rent anymore. If you could tell me where I can find shelter or renting assistance I will greatly appreciate it. Hi my name is Tina. I am looking for some direction to try and help someone.
She is down on her luck, hitting a road block everywhere she turns. She has a total of 4 kids ranging , 9 being my husbands son. The state has removed her kids but put 1 back. My husband is taking his son but that leaves her 2 girls still in state custody.
She has asked welfare to help her, yep they helped by giving For 2 people with no job is usually For a single is around that , she had all 4 of her kids at the time! Me and my husband can only help her so much because he has 2 other children that we also support. Please if anyone can point me in the right direction to help her please let me know.
My name is erica I live w my momma w my 4 kids in a small one bedroom apartment an its not enough room I dont have no where else to go an im tryin to hurry up an get me an my kids our own place and start over fresh. My name is Tina I am 19 years old. I have a baby girl, she is one month old. Her father has nothing to do with us, not in the birth certificate, no child support. I am not homeless, my family has helped me, but theirs things that had happened.
Our lives are at risk, by other family members. I live in San Antonio, TX. I am going to college they are gonna provide me daycare while I study. I just need help for the first month then I will be on track and have a job hopefully. I am a mother of three young boys currently living with my sister and her family. It has been so much going on that I was told that I have to the end of this month to find a place either way I am going to have to leave her house regardless if I have a place to go or not.
So I am asking if someone could please give me information I need to put myself and my boys in. I do not have a vehicle and the town I live in does not provide homeless shelters. The only help I get from the government is food stand and medical cards on myself and my son. I get No cash assistance from the government. Half the time he is at my mothers house because I am unble to support him the way he should be. I am 27 year old and I have 2 kids and I am homeless and I am trying to see if anyone knew of any other programs that could help me out.
I am unemployed but I am looking for work. I am a single mother with a thirteen year old daughter. I lost my job in April and was living off of my savings while I try to find a new one.
Meanwhile, I have been going to school and, it took 6 years but, on September 1, I finally got my Associates Degree Health Care Admnistration with a concentration on Long-term Care.
I am so proud of myself and have been submitting my new resume all over and even have two interviews set up. The problem is, I am 3 months behind on rent and my landlord wants the money or says he is evicting us. If I lose this apartment, we will be homeless. I have bad credit and no money to move in a new place. Even if I get a great job tomorrow, I will not be able to pay the back rent.
If you are searching for housing assistance for single mothers then there are two things you first need to know. The first thing is that housing assistance grants are given by government means and also by private funding groups. The only way to qualify for these emergency housing grants is to prove that you are indeed having a financial problem . “Death brings out the best and the worst in families.” This is a phrase you have probably heard or used time and again if you work in the world of end-of-life/grief and loss. A decree of Legal Separation gives the spouses the right to live separately from each other, dissolves the conjugal partnership, awards the minor children to the innocent spouse and disqualifies the offending spouse from inheriting from the estate of the innocent spouse.. What is the main difference between Legal Separation and .