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Jobs also worked with his team to come up with the phrase, "Local Integrated Software Architecture" as an alternative explanation for the Apple Lisa.
Brennan worked as a waitress in Palo Alto. Later, Brennan agreed to give an interview with Michael Moritz for Time magazine for its Time Person of the Year special, released on January 3, , in which she discussed her relationship with Jobs.
Rather than name Jobs the Person of the Year, the magazine named the computer the "Machine of the Year". In , Jobs lured John Sculley away from Pepsi-Cola to serve as Apple's CEO, asking, "Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water, or do you want a chance to change the world? In , Jobs bought an apartment in the two top floors of The San Remo , a Manhattan building with a politically progressive reputation.
Although he never lived there,  he spent years renovating it with the help of I. In , he sold it to U2 singer Bono.
In , Jobs bought the Jackling House and estate, and resided there for a decade. After that, he leased it out for several years until when he stopped maintaining the house, allowing exposure to the weather to degrade it.
In , Jobs received permission from the town of Woodside to demolish the house in order to build a smaller contemporary styled one. After a few years in court, the house was finally demolished in , a few months before he died. Despite the fanfare, the expensive Macintosh was a hard sell. Microsoft was developing its graphical user interface Although the Macintosh preceded the clones, it was far more expensive, so "through the late s, the Windows user interface was getting better and better and was thus taking increasingly more share from Apple.
Sculley's and Jobs's respective visions for the company greatly differed. The former favored open architecture computers like the Apple II, sold to education, small business, and home markets less vulnerable to IBM. President and CEO Sculley had little control over chairman of the board Jobs's Macintosh division; it and the Apple II division operated like separate companies, duplicating services. Many left including Wozniak, who stated that the company had "been going in the wrong direction for the last five years" and sold most of his stock.
In May , Sculley—encouraged by Arthur Rock—decided to reorganize Apple, and proposed a plan to the board that would remove Jobs from the Macintosh group and put him in charge of "New Product Development. However, Jobs was confronted after the plan was leaked, and he said that he would leave Apple.
The Board declined his resignation and asked him to reconsider. Sculley also told Jobs that he had all of the votes needed to go ahead with the reorganization.
A few months later, on September 17, , Jobs submitted a letter of resignation to the Apple Board. A year later he was running out of money, and he sought venture capital with no product on the horizon. Eventually, Jobs attracted the attention of billionaire Ross Perot , who invested heavily in the company. Steve Wozniak said in a interview that while Jobs was at NeXT he was "really getting his head together". Like the Apple Lisa , the NeXT workstation was technologically advanced and designed for the education sector, but was largely dismissed as cost-prohibitive for educational institutions.
Jobs marketed NeXT products to the financial, scientific, and academic community, highlighting its innovative, experimental new technologies, such as the Mach kernel , the digital signal processor chip, and the built-in Ethernet port. The revised, second generation NeXTcube was released in Jobs touted it as the first "interpersonal" computer that would replace the personal computer.
With its innovative NeXTMail multimedia email system, NeXTcube could share voice, image, graphics, and video in email for the first time. The first film produced by Pixar with its Disney partnership, Toy Story , with Jobs credited as executive producer,  brought fame and critical acclaim to the studio when it was released.
In and , as Pixar's contract with Disney was running out, Jobs and Disney chief executive Michael Eisner tried but failed to negotiate a new partnership,  and in early , Jobs announced that Pixar would seek a new partner to distribute its films after its contract with Disney expired. When the deal closed, Jobs became The Walt Disney Company 's largest single shareholder with approximately seven percent of the company's stock.
Jobs Trust led by Laurene Jobs. Floyd Norman , of Pixar, described Jobs as a "mature, mellow individual" who never interfered with the creative process of the filmmakers. Catmull released the book Creativity, Inc. Regarding his own manner of dealing with Jobs, Catmull writes: In all the 26 years with Steve, Steve and I never had one of these loud verbal arguments and it's not my nature to do that. I would say something to him and he would immediately shoot it down because he could think faster than I could.
I would then wait a week I'd call him up and I give my counter argument to what he had said and he'd immediately shoot it down. So I had to wait another week, and sometimes this went on for months. But in the end one of three things happened. About a third of the time he said, 'Oh, I get it, you're right.
And it was another third of the time in which [I'd] say, 'Actually I think he is right. Chrisann Brennan notes that after Jobs was forced out of Apple, "he apologized many times over for his behavior" towards her and Lisa. She also states that Jobs "said that he never took responsibility when he should have, and that he was sorry.
Jobs did not contact his birth family during his adoptive mother Clara's lifetime, however. He would later tell his official biographer Walter Isaacson: He began to spend a great deal of time with her and learned more details about her background and his adoption, information that motivated him to find his biological mother.
Jobs found on his birth certificate the name of the San Francisco doctor to whom Schieble had turned when she was pregnant. Although the doctor did not help Jobs while he was alive, he left a letter for Jobs to be opened upon his death. As he died soon afterwards, Jobs was given the letter which stated that "his mother had been an unmarried graduate student from Wisconsin named Joanne Schieble.
Jobs only contacted Schieble after Clara died and after he received permission from his father, Paul. In addition, out of respect for Paul, he asked the media not to report on his search. She was twenty-three and she went through a lot to have me. She said that she regretted giving him up and repeatedly apologized to him for it. Jobs and Schieble would develop a friendly relationship throughout the rest of his life and would spend Christmas together. During this first visit, Schieble told Jobs that he had a sister, Mona, who was not aware that she had a brother.
Her first impression of Jobs was that "he was totally straightforward and lovely, just a normal and sweet guy. As we got to know each other, we became really good friends, and she is my family.
I don't know what I'd do without her. I can't imagine a better sister. My adopted sister, Patty, and I were never close. Jobs then learned his family history. Six months after he was given up for adoption, Schieble's father died, she wed Jandali, and they had a daughter, Mona.
I also bear the responsibility for being away from my daughter when she was four years old, as her mother divorced me when I went to Syria, but we got back in touch after 10 years. We lost touch again when her mother moved and I didn't know where she was, but since 10 years ago we've been in constant contact, and I see her three times a year. I organized a trip for her last year to visit Syria and Lebanon and she went with a relative from Florida. A few years later, Schieble married an ice skating teacher, George Simpson.
Mona Jandali took her stepfather's last name and thus became Mona Simpson. In , after they divorced, Schieble took Mona to Los Angeles and raised her on her own.
Jobs told his official biographer that after meeting Simpson, he wanted to become involved in her ongoing search for their father.
When he was found working in Sacramento, they decided that only Simpson would meet him. Jandali and Simpson spoke for several hours at which point he told her that he had left teaching for the restaurant business. He also said that he and Schieble had given another child away for adoption but that "we'll never see that baby again.
I had been to that restaurant a few times, and I remember meeting the owner. I asked Mona not to tell him about me. He then contacted Simpson and asked "what is this thing about Steve Jobs? He never contacted Steve. In , Jobs first met his future wife, Laurene Powell , when he gave a lecture at the Stanford Graduate School of Business , where she was a student. Soon after the event, he stated that Laurene "was right there in the front row in the lecture hall, and I couldn't take my eyes off of her From that point forward, they were together, with a few minor exceptions, for the rest of his life.
After she received her BA from the University of Pennsylvania , she spent a short period in high finance but found it didn't interest her, so she decided to pursue her MBA at Stanford instead.
In addition, unlike Jobs, she was athletic and followed professional sports. She also brought as much self-sufficiency to the relationship as he did and was more of a private than public person. The ceremony was conducted by Jobs's guru , Kobun Chino Otogawa.
The vegan wedding cake was in the shape of Yosemite's Half Dome , and the wedding ended with a hike during which Laurene's brothers had a snowball fight. Jobs is reported to have said to Mona: Jobs's and Powell's first child, Reed, was born September Jobs and Powell had two more children, Erin, born in August , and Eve, born in I don't remember seeing him.
I was busy being terrified. The deal was finalized in February ,  bringing Jobs back to the company he had cofounded. He was formally named interim chief executive in September. In the coming months, many employees developed a fear of encountering Jobs while riding in the elevator, "afraid that they might not have a job when the doors opened.
The reality was that Jobs's summary executions were rare, but a handful of victims was enough to terrorize a whole company. Under Jobs's guidance, the company increased sales significantly with the introduction of the iMac and other new products; since then, appealing designs and powerful branding have worked well for Apple. The company subsequently branched out, introducing and improving upon other digital appliances. With the introduction of the iPod portable music player, iTunes digital music software, and the iTunes Store , the company made forays into consumer electronics and music distribution.
On June 29, , Apple entered the cellular phone business with the introduction of the iPhone , a multi-touch display cell phone, which also included the features of an iPod and, with its own mobile browser, revolutionized the mobile browsing scene. While nurturing innovation, Jobs also reminded his employees that "real artists ship [deliver product]. Team, it turned out that Michael Dell wasn't perfect at predicting the future.
Based on today's stock market close, Apple is worth more than Dell. Stocks go up and down, and things may be different tomorrow, but I thought it was worth a moment of reflection today. Jobs was both admired and criticized for his consummate skill at persuasion and salesmanship, which has been dubbed the " reality distortion field " and was particularly evident during his keynote speeches colloquially known as " Stevenotes " at Macworld Expos and at Apple Worldwide Developers Conferences.
Jobs was a board member at Gap Inc. In , Jobs was granted stock options in the amount of 7. As a result, Jobs potentially faced a number of criminal charges and civil penalties. The case was the subject of active criminal and civil government investigations,  though an independent internal Apple investigation completed on December 29, found that Jobs was unaware of these issues and that the options granted to him were returned without being exercised in In , Jobs responded to criticism of Apple's poor recycling programs for e-waste in the US by lashing out at environmental and other advocates at Apple's annual meeting in Cupertino in April.
A few weeks later, Apple announced it would take back iPods for free at its retail stores. The Computer TakeBack Campaign responded by flying a banner from a plane over the Stanford University graduation at which Jobs was the commencement speaker.
The banner read "Steve, don't be a mini-player—recycle all e-waste. In , he further expanded Apple's recycling programs to any US customer who buys a new Mac. This program includes shipping and "environmentally friendly disposal" of their old systems. Jobs was perceived as a demanding perfectionist   who always aspired to position his businesses and their products at the forefront of the information technology industry by foreseeing and setting innovation and style trends.
He summed up this self-concept at the end of his keynote speech at the Macworld Conference and Expo in January , by quoting ice hockey player Wayne Gretzky:. There's an old Wayne Gretzky quote that I love. Since the very, very beginning. And we always will.
In a interview with biographer Walter Isaacson, Jobs revealed that he had met with US President Barack Obama , complained about the nation's shortage of software engineers, and told Obama that he was "headed for a one-term presidency". After the meeting, Jobs commented, "The president is very smart, but he kept explaining to us reasons why things can't get done. In October , Jobs was diagnosed with cancer. In mid, he announced to his employees that he had a cancerous tumor in his pancreas.
Despite his diagnosis, Jobs resisted his doctors' recommendations for medical intervention for nine months,  instead relying on alternative medicine to thwart the disease. According to Harvard researcher Ramzi Amri, his choice of alternative treatment "led to an unnecessarily early death". Other doctors agree that Jobs's diet was insufficient to address his disease. Cancer researcher and alternative medicine critic David Gorski , for instance, said, "My best guess was that Jobs probably only modestly decreased his chances of survival, if that.
Cassileth , the chief of Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center 's integrative medicine department,  said, "Jobs's faith in alternative medicine likely cost him his life He had the only kind of pancreatic cancer that is treatable and curable He essentially committed suicide. He was also influenced by a doctor who ran a clinic that advised juice fasts, bowel cleansings and other unproven approaches, before finally having surgery in July His "thin, almost gaunt" appearance and unusually "listless" delivery,   together with his choice to delegate significant portions of his keynote to other presenters, inspired a flurry of media and Internet speculation about the state of his health.
Others said that shareholders had a right to know more, given Jobs's hands-on approach to running his company. On August 28, , Bloomberg mistakenly published a word obituary of Jobs in its corporate news service, containing blank spaces for his age and cause of death.
News carriers customarily stockpile up-to-date obituaries to facilitate news delivery in the event of a well-known figure's death. Although the error was promptly rectified, many news carriers and blogs reported on it,  intensifying rumors concerning Jobs's health. On December 16, , Apple announced that marketing vice-president Phil Schiller would deliver the company's final keynote address at the Macworld Conference and Expo , again reviving questions about Jobs's health.
On January 14, , Jobs wrote in an internal Apple memo that in the previous week he had "learned that my health-related issues are more complex than I originally thought". In , Tim Cook offered a portion of his liver to Jobs, since both share a rare blood type. The donor liver can regenerate tissue after such an operation. Jobs yelled, "I'll never let you do that. I'll never do that. On January 17, , a year and a half after Jobs returned to work following the liver transplant, Apple announced that he had been granted a medical leave of absence.
Jobs announced his leave in a letter to employees, stating his decision was made "so he could focus on his health. On August 24, , Jobs announced his resignation as Apple's CEO, writing to the board, "I have always said if there ever came a day when I could no longer meet my duties and expectations as Apple's CEO, I would be the first to let you know. Unfortunately, that day has come.
PDT on October 5, , due to complications from a relapse of his previously treated islet-cell pancreatic neuroendocrine tumor ,    which resulted in respiratory arrest. Before embarking, he'd looked at his sister Patty, then for a long time at his children, then at his life's partner, Laurene, and then over their shoulders past them.
Steve's final words were: Apple  and Pixar each issued announcements of his death. Bob Iger ordered all Disney properties, including Walt Disney World and Disneyland , to fly their flags at half-staff from October 6 to 12, A video of the service was uploaded to Apple's website.
Those in attendance included Apple and other tech company executives, members of the media, celebrities, close friends of Jobs, and politicians, along with Jobs's family. The service was highly secured, with guards at all of the university's gates, and a helicopter flying overhead from an area news station. The box contained a copy of the Autobiography of a Yogi by Paramahansa Yogananda.
Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak ,  former owner of what would become Pixar , George Lucas ,  former rival, Microsoft co-founder Bill Gates ,  and President Barack Obama  all offered statements in response to his death. Lisa Brennan-Jobs, Steve Job's eldest daughter, described Jobs in her memoir as cruel and illustrated patterns of cruel behaviors during her adolescence years . She further indicated that his business successes enabled his ruthless behaviors and abuses. Jobs's design aesthetic was influenced by philosophies of Zen and Buddhism.
In India, he experienced Buddhism while on his seven-month spiritual journey,  and his sense of intuition was influenced by the spiritual people with whom he studied. According to Apple cofounder Steve Wozniak "Steve didn't ever code. He wasn't an engineer and he didn't do any original design Steve Jobs was the marketing person. He is listed as either primary inventor or co-inventor in United States patents or patent applications related to a range of technologies from actual computer and portable devices to user interfaces including touch-based , speakers, keyboards, power adapters, staircases, clasps, sleeves, lanyards and packages.
Jobs's contributions to most of his patents were to "the look and feel of the product". His industrial design chief Jonathan Ive had his name along with him for of the patents. Involved in many projects throughout his career was his long-time marketing executive and confidant Joanna Hoffman , known as one of the few employees at Apple and NeXT who could successfully stand up to Jobs while also engaging with him.
Even while terminally ill in the hospital, Jobs sketched new devices that would hold the iPad in a hospital bed. Since his death, the former Apple CEO has won patents, more than most inventors win during their lifetimes.
Currently, Jobs holds over patents. The Lisa is a personal computer designed by Apple Computer, Inc. It was the first personal computer to offer a graphical user interface in a machine aimed at individual business users. Development of the Lisa began in In , after Jobs was forced out of the Lisa project,  he joined the Macintosh project.
The Macintosh is not a direct descendant of Lisa, although there are obvious similarities between the systems. Once he joined the original Macintosh team, Jobs took over the project after Wozniak had experienced a traumatic airplane accident and temporarily left the company. This was the first mass-market personal computer featuring an integral graphical user interface and mouse. Since , Apple has largely phased out the Macintosh name in favor of "Mac", though the product family has been nicknamed "Mac" or "the Mac" since the development of the first model.
The ad alludes to George Orwell 's novel, Nineteen Eighty-Four , which described a dystopian future ruled by a televised " Big Brother. The Macintosh, however, was expensive, which hindered its ability to be competitive in a market already dominated by the Commodore 64 for consumers, as well as the IBM Personal Computer and its accompanying clone market for businesses.
After Jobs was forced out of Apple in , he started a company that built workstation computers. The NeXT Computer was introduced in at a lavish launch event.
Apple iMac was introduced in and its innovative design was directly the result of Jobs's return to Apple. Apple boasted "the back of our computer looks better than the front of anyone else's.
In , Apple introduced the Graphite gray Apple iMac and since has varied the shape, colour and size considerably while maintaining the all-in-one design. Design ideas were intended to create a connection with the user such as the handle and a breathing light effect when the computer went to sleep.
The iMac also featured some technical innovations, such as having USB ports as the only device inputs. This latter change resulted, through the iMac's success, in the interface being popularised among third party peripheral makers—as evidenced by the fact that many early USB peripherals were made of translucent plastic to match the iMac design.
It is used to play, download, and organize digital audio and video as well as other types of media available on the iTunes Store on personal computers running the macOS and Microsoft Windows operating systems. Through the iTunes Store, users can purchase and download music, music videos, television shows, audiobooks , podcasts , movies, and movie rentals in some countries, and ringtones , available on the iPhone and iPod Touch fourth generation onward.
The first generation of iPod was released October 23, The major innovation of the iPod was its small size achieved by using a 1. The introduction of the iPod resulted in Apple becoming a major player in the music industry.
Apple began work on the first iPhone in and the first iPhone was released on June 29, The iPhone created such a sensation that a survey indicated six out of ten Americans were aware of its release. Time Magazine declared it "Invention of the Year" for In June , the iPhone 3GS , whose improvements included voice control, a better camera, and a faster processor, was introduced by Phil Schiller.
The user interface is built around the device's multi-touch screen, including a virtual keyboard. The iPad includes built-in Wi-Fi and cellular connectivity on select models. As of April , there have been over million iPads sold. From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia. American entrepreneur and co-founder of Apple Inc.
This article is about the person. For other uses, see Steve Jobs disambiguation. Jobs at the Worldwide Developers Conference. It is the most awesome tool that we have ever invented. I feel incredibly lucky to be at exactly the right place in Silicon Valley , at exactly the right time, historically , where this invention has taken form. There was a constant flow of intellectual questioning about the truth of life. I was lucky to get into computers when it was a very young and idealistic industry.
There weren't many degrees offered in computer science, so people in computers were brilliant people from mathematics, physics, music, zoology, whatever. They loved it, and no one was really in it for the money [ Not only couldn't we afford the computers that were on the market, those computers were impractical for us to use. We needed a Volkswagen. The Volkswagen isn't as fast or comfortable as other ways of traveling, but the VW owners can go where they want, when they want and with whom they want.
The VW owners have personal control of their car. They always believed that what they were doing was important and, most of all, fun. Working at Apple was never just a job; it was also a crusade, a mission, to bring better computer power to people. At its roots that attitude came from Steve Jobs. It was " Power to the People ", the slogan of the sixties, rewritten in technology for the eighties and called Macintosh. I don't know the source of these reports, but they are both misleading to the public and unfair to me.
You will recall that at last Thursday's Board meeting I stated I had decided to start a new venture, and I tendered my resignation as chairman. The Board declined to accept my resignation and asked me to defer it for a week. I agreed to do so in light of the encouragement the Board offered with regard to the proposed new venture and the indications that Apple would invest in it. On Friday, after I told John Sculley who would be joining me, he confirmed Apple's willingness to discuss areas of possible collaboration between Apple and my new venture.
Subsequently the Company appears to be adopting a hostile posture toward me and the new venture. Accordingly, I must insist upon the immediate acceptance of my resignation. I would hope that in any statement it feels it must issue, the Company will make it clear that the decision to resign as chairman was mine. I find myself both saddened and perplexed by the management's conduct in this matter which seems to me contrary to Apple's best interests. Those interests remain a matter of deep concern to me, both because of my past association with Apple and the substantial investment I retain in it.
I continue to hope that calmer voices within the Company may yet be heard. Some Company representatives have said they fear I will use proprietary Apple technology in my new venture.
There is no basis for any such concern. If that concern is the real source of Apple's hostility to the venture, I can allay it. As you know, the company's recent re-organization left me with no work to do and no access even to regular management reports. I am but 30 and want still to contribute and achieve.
After what we have accomplished together, I would wish our parting to be both amicable and dignified. Yours sincerely, Steven P. Because we were poor and because I knew my father had emigrated from Syria, I imagined he looked like Omar Sharif. I hoped he would be rich and kind and would come into our lives and our not-yet-furnished apartment and help us. Later, after I'd met my father, I tried to believe he'd changed his number and left no forwarding address because he was an idealistic revolutionary, plotting a new world for the Arab people.
Even as a feminist, my whole life I'd been waiting for a man to love, who could love me. For decades, I'd thought that man would be my father.
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Reported by Michael Moritz. The Computer Moves in. Time , January 3, Ive been married for 12 years. He had his birthday in November, and went out for dinner with a few work mates. He was first telling me he had gone home on the train to the Navy accommodation block.
Then caught the train back in the morning to meet up for breakfast. After questioning him some more, he admitted he had stayed there the weekend in November. He was still referring to her as someone till I again questioned him. I was then told her name was Judy. His story was still changing. He told me he asked her if he could stay, but quickly changed that to she asked him.
He says nothing happened and he slept on the couch. I feel he had a one night stand, as he got all defensive when I questioned him, even asked me hed I had been having an affair, so put it back on me. I found out in October my husband was talking to another woman for 5 months.
He said he was only talking to her notjing happened. I had to meet the other woman to get the truth in December and find out they had a realtionship. How can you talk to your husband about your feelings without getting into a fight?
Come to find out they work together. What if I was told by a girl he cheated, then I found a message from him to that girls friend saying he wanted her. My gut and the message proves he did but he denies it.
I feel like my husband is hiding something. I found out in Sept that my husband was having an affair for 2 or 3 months. He did all of the usual crappy stuff like lying and sneaking around and sleeping with his phone. He admitted to the affair. He said it was a girl he went to nursing school with a few years before and he saw her at a store where they began talking.
They hooked up in hotel rooms while I thought he was at work. He even had the gall to answer some of my texts while he was laying in the hotel bed with her. He told me so. She was 20 years younger than m3. I find it incredibly odd that she just happened to move away right at the time I found out about the affair. I asked what her name was but he refused to tell me.
After constant demanding from me via text while he was at work. We are trying to work things out but my doubts about this are eating me up. What do yall think? I am so sorry! My husband is also lying about cheating and I found him on the craiglist!!
I believe he is cheating. I have lived it. My husband and I have been going through this for years with stupid messaging relationships and I always get tired of fighting and forgive him but it never stops it from happening again.
He cheated on me when I was carrying our son but I married him anyway. Wish I had left after the first time…. These are good ways to find out if your husband is lying about cheating. But since nowadays everyone has mobile phones, and you can just install a program for tracking his phone. Even if he deletes all of the correspondence you will see everything. The only reason he is still with me is for our kids.
I think that is also why I stay quiet and let it happen. I afraid I have lived with him since I was 18 years I am now He hates when I have to go help my mom and says really stupid things.
You are worth so much more…. I wish you all the strength in the world.. Ellie thank you so much for your kind words. I have spoke to him and told him the things that bother me and he has been better attentive. What tracking program would you recommend to find out if your husband is lying about cheating? Talk to someone you trust. Get in-person advice and counseling.
Talk to someone who knows you, or who is objective such as a counselor or therapist. Know that you can handle this! Whether or not your husband is cheating, you have the resources and strength you need to deal with it.
Connect with women who are strong and understanding, and find ways to get emotionally and spiritually strong. Find pockets of life and light, and stay there. Be wise, and trust that you are loved completely by Someone bigger and stronger than your husband. Great info here Laurie. I like the 5 points how to know if your spouse is cheating. You should have a base expression of your spouse when the two of you are chatting together casual.
Then if you want to know if your spouse is lying you can use that base expression when asking questions. In this way you have a way to check if your spouse is lying or telling the truth. He took that picture on the restroom and sent it to her there was no other emails to her anymore just that picture.. I go over his friends on Facebook and because of her name and phone on Facebook I find out it was a high school friend who is married and has a little girl..
I confronted him again he said they where just talking but he deleted all the messages.. I have found more messages from different girls on his social media he said there is nothing wrong in talking to girls but he deletes Athens messages if there is nothing wrong why delete them right..
I have deleted several girls from his Facebook but thereshe this one that he always request back his Facebook account was deactivatedoing for some time first thing he does is request that girl again and he hids it from his timeline.. Lucky me I ran across your website by accident stumbleupon. I have book marked it for later!
But I did find a really interesting book about men who cheat, and I wrote this article:. There are some really interesting tips and ideas for how to know if your husband is cheating in the book I cite. The best thing is to get evidence, so you have something solid to confront him with.
Hi, my husband and I have been married for a little over a year. We had seperated in September until November Long story short he left me 3 hours away from home and went back home, after he realized he screwed up he called crying. Fast forward to April , I had recieved a phone call from a private number at maybe am from a female stating she had been screwing my husband.
Well I broke it to her that I had just screwed him and it upset her so she hung up. Well he falls asleep and I went through his phone and found somethings from a female he said was like a sister. It crushed me and sent me into a very bad depression not only was my husband cheating but I had also found out 2 weeks prior that a good friend had been murdered. My world was shattered. Well I broke it to him that if we are going to work he cannot hurt me anymore because if he does I will walk out and he can never get me back.
Well fast forward to about 2 months ago. His job was hiring and I had a friend whom I had worked with previously looking for a job. She started work and it was all good except he started to care a lot more about his apperence.
Wearing jeans, nice shirt, nice shoes and doing more to his hair. He has a very chill job and usually wore sweats well Up until 3 weeks ago. He started to change, being very mean, being out late, changing his phones password, blocking me. All different types of things. They had been texting, talking on Facebook and God only knows what at work. Well I began to ask questions and my husband kept saying I was crazy and how I was always accusing him but I have always been right about him.
So I blocked her and him and I fought. When I questioned it he flipped on me. He then sent her text messages that he deleted before I saw them. Is my husband cheating? What should I do? Your instincts are dead on. You need to confront your friend and end the friendship with her as well. If you cant work it out with your husband divorce is a great option. Based on the information you have posted here ,your husband is a serial cheater.
Men like to make u think that you are the crazyone but you are intuitive and intelligent enough to see what is going on. It is up to you to love your self ,not lower your standards and find youa good man that will treat you like a queen.
If you want to know if your husband is lying about cheating. My cousin lived with us for one year as house helper, after few months i suspected something between my husband and my cousin, like they sometimes look for each other without telling me the reason, one time we were on vacation and he went home because his reason was of that our business, and one time i saw him running after her when she was about to go home, and many more,.
After a year the girl was not with us anymore. But i am confused and i doubt hes lying. My husband and I have been married two years now. Together for about seven years. Before we were officially together he treated me like no other had before. I fully explained what I expected from our relationship and the balance of friends and romance time.
We moved onwards from there, but it always felt like something was wrong. It was as if I was a chore or a roommate. It made me so confused and depressed. I did everything for him. I told myself that it would go back to the way it was.
Things would be okay. Maybe it was the slowing down of drinking? One night he was on call at the local tow company he worked for and a text message came in that he slept through. I cried and cried and then cried some more. My amazing man who lifted up my spirits like nobody else could, had shattered my world with an affair. I checked his Facebook page while I was at it.
At least seven more affairs. We went to couples counseling to try to heal the wounds within our relationship. It ended up being more like his therapy sessions. I was invisible there. There was and still has been no sympathy or compassion for my broken heart. Not from him or the therapist. Thinking that I had known everything now and maybe we could be stronger, I married him. He refuses to talk about it or even accept his own guilt.
I just have to deal with it and move on. I believe that he has tried to hook up with this girl again. He truly thinks that with his past he should be trusted and that he needs to do nothing to fix this. I wish I had known everything before we were married. I so sorry ur going through this. Like all women, we fell hook, line and sinker…They got us, but still wants to live the single life.
If I was in ur shoes, I would sit down and have heart to heart talk with him. C what he wants and what u want. Even if there are children, no children or adult should live like this…. You need to find out…. Samantha- I read your story. You had faith, it was broken. You gave him the benefit of the doubt, that was thrown in your face. Are you waiting for a sex tape to arrive at your house?
You seem like a kind trusting person. You would not do those things to him! Trust me, there is a man for you. Move on and leave him behind. I am in a VERY similar situation: I thought we were so perfect together, he was my safe place and my best friend. About a month before our 1 year anniversary I caught him lying about something.
I was so deviated. In that moment in felt like the man I had loved had just died.. I still feel like this is cheating either way. But my trust for him is gone, and so is the beautiful relationship I thought we had. Are you going to stay with your husband? My story is a little different. A married man took advantage of me 3 year ago. It started as normal as can be. We both live in the same building.
I live for 39 he 23 years. I first saw him 20 plus years, never spoken to each other. Then about 4 years ago, I was telling a joke to my other neighbors and there he was laughing…I introduced myself to him.
There is and was nothing going on between us but a friendship…well I thought. We spent many hours talking and spare life stories. Little did I know, he was waiting for the right moment to assault me. U see I kind of know his wife, and went to high school with his sis-in-law. I could walk away from this and just take it a misunderstanding.. He is chronic liar and a cheater. I always ask him to take a test.. I waiting and waiting until Feb 21, I told his wife. His wife called me a liar and everything on the book.
He was force to tell his wife and the polices his affairs, his one nightstands and what he did to me…After all this, do I regret telling his wife…NO. First, I wanted to put him and every man like him in his place. And second I wanted to hurt him and if it means going through his wife, then YES. Half of my neighbors have known he was cheating for years. I in therapy…As far as I know the wife still with him, knowing he cheats. He takes care of her by paying her rent and etc. There are women out there like his wife who are blind and stupid…I was stupid for 3 years,,,where his wife over 23 years…why she and other stay is the answer I would like to know….
I was also taken advantage of when I was in a VERY vulnerable position, just experienced a lot of major trauma, huge losses my entire family , he hurt my grown son, etc. I was devastated from losing my whole family!
He got VERY ugly, snapped, etc. It was at a horrendous time too when Is just been dealt another loss! How cruel I thought! I was doubled over in severe emotional paun, crying out to God!
Sweet Pea, It gives me some comfort knowing I not alone. He is not a nice man. It was all his fault. I come from a difference race. But I prove him wrong. And if hurting him means going through his wife I will….
My husband has been working for the past month from Sunday to Sunday. For the first time he stayed out the whole night and lied where he were. We have a three year old daughter together. I prayed with someone else where two or more are together Jesus is in the midst. She was mad and threatening to tell me. I that affair started when I was pregnant and I found out when our son was 15 months old. Such a smart response. I have prayed that too and God has revealed it when it needed to be, every time!
You are absolutely right! I to prayed That The Lord would reveal to me what I needed to know! I found the texts and my world collapsed! Out of all the nights to check and all of the times he deleted texts before coming home, this one night, he forgot. Everytime he goes to visit them.
I confronted him n he denied saying she meant before I came into his life. Some months passed and one day she called saying she was pregnant again…he became moody. He took me outside on a stroll…we talked and he said he was sorry about wat he had to tell me.
He told me that when he went there he drank with her and her friend…n became drunk. This took him months to tell me. I feel he lied about everything. Nothing against you more against them. Yes he made the whole story up. Tell her the story he told you and it will piss her off and she will tell everything. My husband was texting a female at work all night, I asked who the woman was and he said it was an older woman from another line he works in a large assembly plant.
I asked to see the text and he deleted them. So, I called the number and it was a female his age. Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them.
She was also pentecostal and stopped wearing skirts, started wearing make up and cut her hair. I called her and acted like he was sitting there, she tells me they are just really good friends and that she was telling him she was done meaning done being friends with him. She also said they met up at a parking lot where a lot of people go to hang out and drink after work at around 2 or 3 am when they get off work. She swore nothing sexual but all she cared about was her boyfriend who works the other shift and was very defensive.
I told him no and that if he talks to her without me around I was leaving, I said you have the entire weekend to call her with me sitting right here. I just felt like that if he was really that mad he would have called her. My husband went away on business the same weekend i took our daughters on a shopping trip, but my gut told me different.
He has a history of lying to me but thought he had stopped. I found strange underware but we all joked it off. He geta defensive when I ask small questions. Coverststions are less, sex gas gone from 2 times a day to, once every 3 months.
No hand holding no romance pretty much nothing!!! He owns his own business and ends his day at the same place before coming everyday another womans business.
I have confronted him several times, showed up there once that was a bad idea he got so upset. He gets very defensive when i bring anything up. I have seen flirtations in emails to and from other women that he denies. I tell him I love him.
I do little special things for him. Not to walk away thinking what if i was wrong, did I just give up. There are a lot of financial issues as well that could be keeping him here I think thats the only glue. Please help by telling me what you think! I waited 30 years,same shit,now go running. Why are you wasting what is left of your youth on a man who is interested in other women? You will find another man, someone who wants only you. You know it and he knows you know it.
You are worth so much more than this!!! You can do it. Vickie, you already know honey. He is treating you disrespectably. At this point, anything you endure is your own fault. I know that sounds harsh, but you know better.
Your belly is screaming at you. That means leaving him and not allowing it. If you have children, you do not want to show them this as an acceptable way to treat people, or allow yourself to be treated. You are worth more. That means act as if, fake it til you make it. Once you get through that you will feel good and be empowered. I sat it all the time, but remember this. It is so important. And we are blessed with 22months old son.
If i say i understand whats happening in my marriage now am lying. I cant even say i understand my husband anymore. He lies so much that it piss me off all the time. Well, to cut the long story short, i believed him and we moved on. When i confronted him, He accepted and told me it was the daughter of a male colleague at work, when i investigated, it was another lie.
The daughter actually belong to one whom he has actually been talking to over the phone. Am just tired and i dont know what else to do. Am contemplating ending the marriage. Abiola- I feel bad for you, but the writing is crusty on the wall. The man is trying like Hell to cheat on you. AND you caught him lying over and over… Why is he lying?
Dont wait till he leaves for someone else! Get rid of him. Hello folks, reading many thoughts of. Cheaters just make me sick. Been there, had husband of 13yrs cheat on me. BS, she was calling him all hrs of night, evening…… wow how stupid I was. Sure some where calls i heard radio traffic, but after it was over several hours later not home. Then when he did get home it was jump in shower, well i read that you can tell if man had sex especially in hurry to leave gf, check underwear for late ejectuation.
Yup, white crud in underwear, but i couldnt prove it. Than took job out of state and he insisted that i go. When furloughed , wow eye opener i got. Went to use my lap top and he was on earlier but due to a fire call, oopsie he forgot to log out! And what i found; all the naked pictures of her in his email, his IM on fb with more naked pictures of her in my house, pictures at her house saying if her family found out she is done.
Well being pissed i took those pictures printed out , mailed to her husband, her neighbors all on fire department who helped lie for him. Few weeks into it her husband dyes of cancer, her son disowned her and my husband said he didnt do anything and is innocent. Hmmm , i find bs. Well i went to counseling, tried to turn other cheek, live what bible says about forgiveness ,we even MOVED out of state. Been two years and he is starting to lie to me and our son.
Talks rude disrespectful and down grade. My son begs me wait til he is in mid teens to leave his father, but am so misable.
I can dance naked on the bed in front of him, dont do anyghing, bring out my toy he dont care, what do i need to do to let him know am here? The open and honest communication you and your husband are having now is awesome. He is learning about emotional affairs, and you are learning how to recognize and talk about the signs a husband is cheating.
This is excellent growth — you and he and moving forward in your relationship. I hope you can see and appreciate this, because focusing on your growth and communication will help you and him get closer. Thank you for your comments. He does not want to go to counseling. Thinks we can work on this together and tells me that I can go if I want to. He says he has told me everything after initially lieing.
He is remorseful at hurting me and our marriage. I try to tell myself if he wanted to be with that other woman, he would just leave me. I have been with my man for 8 years and married for two. In October of , I went on a five day vacation with my daughter.
I asked him who this was. That it must of been attached to a junk email he got. A week later, because I found an unknown name in his address book of his email and asked him who it was, he confessed that it was the girl in that picture. I cried and cried. He told me that a few days before I left for vacation, this girl called him at work leaving a message that she was in town and that he could stop by to see her. He said he had worked with this girl many years ago and they were friends then.
He admitted after dropping me off at the airport, he went to work on his day off, listened to her voicemail to retrieve her number. He admitted he called her the next day. They talked and he said he told her that he would stop by when he was working if he could. Two days after he returned to work and stopped at her relatives house where she was.
He told me that she asked if they could stay in touch. He gave her his email address. He admitted she emailed him for the next four weeks and he would answer her back. He admitted he told her not to email on his days off or at night because he would be with me. That leads to the day he accidentally autosaved a picture she sent him and I found it.
He tells me it was the only picture she ever sent. She was fully clothed, just a selfie of herself. He admitted he deleted the emails as they came in. We talked and came to the determination together that our marriage had some problems and that if he was happier in our marriage, maybe he would of not decided to allow this to happen. She sought him out. He swears they only had a friendship and is not nor ever was attracted to her sexually. He said he never got that feeling from her either.
He said during the week he lied to me about the picture, he was trying to figure out how to tell me. He said that during the time he and she were emailing, he felt guilty because he knew it was wrong and was going to let it phase out because it seem to be. So, he only ended it the day I found the picture. He told me this that day a week later when I found her name in his address book.
He said he emailed her afterward telling her I found the picture and they would not be contacting or emailing anymore. The day he confessed, I asked him to email her in front of me so I could see how they interacted. He wrote just hi to her. She replied asking him how is he emailing her from that email. He replied by asking why. That response made me feel like maybe they were just friends. He told me he secretly emailed an old friend for 4 weeks, but did not see her in person other than that one time.
He said he never kissed all the way to sex with her. I went through with it anyway. All came up negative. He tells me he knows he lied when I first found the picture, but has since told me everything and is being honest.
He has sincerely told me he loves me, is still in love with me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He seems to be telling the truth, but why do I still feel unsure? I am consumed in what happened. I want to stay with him, but am afraid he did sleep with this woman. Hi Kim, I recently had a very similar experience with my long term boyfriend 13 years. I feel like I have gone insane.
I was reading these articles and I ran into your comment. It hit me straight in my stomach. But at the same time, how can I be overreacting? I feel tormented by this. Listen to your gut. Elisa said that she had a weird feeling, and she found her husband viewing the profile of another woman on Facebook. She trusted her gut — her intuition — and she was right. What is your gut telling you about what you should do next?
Write down the answers. Well my situation continues to spiral downwards. There were favors involved working her shifts. I recently learned that he kept track of the days he saw her by drawing smiley faces in his calendar.
When I asked why there were none for me he said it was because we are married and I am home everyday. He admitted to me that four months ago when he learned she would be transferring to another site he bought her a small gift — a necklace. It was not expensive but he made sure he took money out of our bank account to purchase it behind my back.
I think its progress that he admitted to this and did so as an attempt to save our marriage. We are in therapy — just started — but I am not sure that I can bear the pain of this deception and all. He was able in therapy to admit to an attraction but to say its mostly a mentor relationship.
He maintains this woman is in no way, shape or form interested in him. I used to think I was in therapy because of how my parents treated me, or because my wife was emotionally abusive, or because she had cheated on me, etc, etc. I had ignored my gut for so long that it had gotten sick so to speak. It will get you to where you are supposed to be. I have been married for 18 years.
I spent a week home with my husband and things seemed good. When he returned to working his night shift, I had a weird feeling and felt compelled to check his Facebook. When I checked the history, I saw he had been viewing the profile of a 28 year old woman he works with he is The pictures on her profile were all bikini pictures.
I confronted him the next day about this and he admitted he had a crush on her but that nothing happened between them. I was devastated because he was checking out her photos one night while I was asleep. He also admitted that he had been regularly deleting his FB history but that he was careless this one time and forgot to do it. He has told me he cares about her because she gets into trouble she is a real gem — married, has a coworker boyfriend and has been through six men at work already.
It bothered me because up until this incident, I thought he only had eyes for me. He also admitted that this crush of his has been for about a year.
I decided to forgive him and he decided to deactivate his Facebook. I checked his laptop and saw that he has reactivated his FB account several times. The history has probably been cleared again. I know men are visual creatures. Do I confront him about the reactivation? I feel like I cant win here. He does seem to genuinely like me just not sure how much. I see him usually 1 week a month, sometimes 2.
Two months ago, I got a bad feeling in my gut, the kind I had in one past relationship where my ex cheated on me. He seemed much more emotionally in tune with her then with me from what I could tell and he also knew her long before he met me.
On the other hand something still feels off. Any advice would be appreciated. I also want to add that he does talk about a future with me. He talks about me going back to his country with him to visit and to meet his family.
Also he texts me x a day and has ever since we met. Hi, He is a man who is a cheater aka; player. He is using you any way he can. If your relationship with him were in a safe situation you wouldnt even be questioning his behavior you would know right off the top of your head if he were crazy in love with you.
Say good bye, change the locks go see a nice psychologist who can lift up your spirits while you are sad about this. So you can move on and steer clear of losers like this.
Trust your inner feelings, you will find in the end you were right. You have to protect Yourself, as he seems to be giving you mixed feelings. You are the one that counts the most, never let anyone take advantage of you. About 3 months ago on a Thursday morning at 7: He looks over to see who was calling and got up and redialed the number.
He then walked off into another room. When he came back I asked who was he talking with and he said the sister of someone we know well. And he grinned and said she had knee surgery and he had called to see how she was doing. And I said what did she want and he said she was just returning the call. She works at the hospital where he works as a cashier in the cafeteria. He had introduced her to me about a year previous to this incident and gave me her name and said she was the brother of the person we both know.
In is when he began to ask me if I knew her and I told him I did not. I only know the brother and a couple other sisters of his. Well one evening he came home after their father died and asked me if I was going to the wake. I told him no, because I did not know her father like that. He said well lets go, I know her and you know her brother.
Lets go and support them. Both times this lady never opened her mouth to me. She just looked at me and said nothing both times. I think she forgot he was not at work when she placed that Thursday Morning call. Had she not placed that call I never would Have questioned him about this woman. He told me he had known her for over thirty years and we have been married for 49 years. It bothered me that he did not mention this to me when we were introduced and I knew nothing of this woman the whole time we have been married.
I told him he should have wished her good luck on her last day at work with her surgery and that should have been it. I asked him how many men who come through that line everyday called her to see how she was doing and they probably have been knowing her just as long or longer than he has. I think there is something sinister going on here. I checked his phone and he had deleted the calls to and from her from his phone but I found them on the internet bill. There were three calls and he said he only called her once.
I think if this woman is such a good friend of his I should have known this years ago since she came into our lives after we were married. After I got married I had no male friends because he accused me of going with every man I came in contact with.
And he has his phone on him all the time, sometimes he leaves without telling me and his excuse is that his walking the dogs but when I call him while his walking the dogs it seems like his in the beach bathroom all the time we live right next to the beach.
His been acting different lately. When I try to ask him about him cheating, he calls me crazy or a dumb ass. He Denies it and try to cover it up. Please give me advice thank u. My husband did the same sort of things to me and he was definitely cheating.
Believe me, he is feeding you a bunch of bunk. I am sorry this is happening, but you are very young and have your whole life ahead. I had two small children, too, and I moved on from me cheating husband.
I will pray for God to give you strength. I hope you have family close who can help you make a new start. You are worth it!! Much prayers and good luck!! Krizen, you have a few problems here. I was in the same situation with my wife many years ago.
You deserve to be treated better, and with honesty and respect. The other problem you have is that you are dependent on this man. I would consider trying to make other arrangements. If you have family or friends that can help and be supportive in the meantime while you try and get things together so that you can stand on your own 2 feet, that is something you should really consider.
Trust me, what this dumbasses doing is just one little page in the entire book of your life. Your well-being is not dependent on this man, nor should it to be. I hope you do. I know change can be scary but sometimes we have to walk through that fear to get something good on the other side.
You need anything else or any other device or want to contact me just let me know. Hi Mr Tommy D. However, he has cheated on me five times now. He cheated and a month later he moved to another city. Theresa, Sweetie, you are wasting your time. At least if you want something exclusive with this man. He is not behaving in any way that should gain your confidence. Trust your belly honey.
Why are you wasting your time with him? Show a man love, faith, warmth, hard work and he will follow you. You are a woman, you have control in the end. Act like you are worth more than how he treats you. With time, you will feel it I promise. Dear H, Yes, who did you hire? I walked into my husbands office unexpectedly and saw his phone under a file.
At first I thought nothing of it. So if your friend can do it again please let me know. We have been married for 16 years. We both have had infidelity issues in the past but we have worked on them and moved on. I found out I had an std while I was pregnant, and the doctor gave him and I medication to get rid of the std. I am pregnant again, and my husband insists we use condoms. If we have been cleared before, and I am pregnant, why use condoms? My instincts tell me that he may be cheating… but I cant figure out how he would have the time.
They sneak off on breaks, and his wife is none the wiser. Sorry, but anyone can explain away a short amount of time. Hi, my husband has changed a lot.
He always start agruments even in small things which always turn out to be a big issues between us. I feel like somethings is really wrong.
He always go to work even weekends. It seems that he spend more of his time away from home than to stay home. Usually, the women posting describe behavior from their man that makes its even quite obvious that he is cheating. You are correct in saying that something is wrong.
The things you explained demonstrate that the relationship may not be going too well and that communication between the two of you has broken down. Obviously, the connection between the two of you is suffering. But, none of this means that your husband is cheating. Of course it is possible that he is but his behavior also may just be him pulling away.
Do you still love him and want him and want to work to keep it together? If you do, talk to him…. You can be OK with or without him. Hi Mspinkstuff, I feel the same with you.
In his car, buy hidden gps tracker in amazon so you will check his location everytime. I hope it will help you. Women cheat too, they do it because the need children from different partners to keep a tribe intact. Hi Jan Of course women cheat!
They get bored and feel mistreated or unappreciated and unfulfilled. I will share my experience and suggest a motive for infidelity amongst men and women. I personally have been in several long-term relationships including one marriage of nine years. That marriage by the way ended because my wife was sleeping with another man.
Despite the fact that I have been cheated on in a relationship, I myself have actually never cheat on the person I was involved with. But I believe that in reality monogamy is unnatural for humans.