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Marriage is an awesome thing. And part of that plan is for us to have a passionate marriage. What starts of, in most cases, as a passionate relationship between two people — passionate at all levels — can often end up in a kind of cold war with a massive emotional, spiritual and oft times physical Berlin wall running straight down the middle of that relationship.

Just stop and think about this. Marriage is the most natural thing in the world. Man and woman coming together as one, most commonly bringing children into the world — family — this basic unit of our society.

And yet for many, let me say it as it is — for most — ending up as something that falls way short of what it could be. It makes you want to cry. Do you remember how it all began?

The romance — being completely besotted with one another. You were passionate about one another — there was no one else for you. Let me ask you — these years on … is it still like that? Do you still feel that amazing passion? It numbers in my top 5 books of all time. Have a listen to what Clarke says about passion in marriage:. Can we ever again be crazy in love?

It is a big yes! That happens to every married couple. What you can do is what Sandy and I did. You can get it back.

Did you pick it? In fact, in the second sentence of the 1 st paragraph of the 1 st chapter of the book he asks this question:. Why, in percent of all marriages, does passion disappear just a handful of years after the wedding? Because this world conspires to tear us apart — husband from wife, wife from husband. Work, responsibilities, paying the mortgage, putting food on the table, dealing with the pressures and stresses of life. Her bad habits — are driving him crazy too just quietly.

And with the kids demanding attention and the job taking more hours out of the day than it has a right to … there you have it, the passion is gone. Listen to what he says again:. What you can do, is what Sandy his wife and I did.

Not as some elusive ideal that no one can attain. But in actual reality. Just stop and think about that in the context of your marriage. God has dedicated a whole book — a complete book of the Bible to the passionate love between a man and a woman — the Song of Songs, sometimes called the Song of Solomon in the Old Testament. He story of the love between King Solomon and the Shulamith woman. Listen to the passion they have for one another:.

Like a lily among the thorns, So is my darling among the maidens writes Solomon SS 2: True passion , writes David Clarke, is not a phase of marriage. That is an amazing challenge to many, I know. And in the company of David Clarke through his fantastic book — Kiss me like you mean it.

Thank u fr wonderful advice i enjoyed reading your page. It will make a perfect Valentine Day gift. We will read it together. I have been incredibly blessed over the past 37 years of marriage 40 years since I first noticed Wendy and got the courage to ask if she wanted to go on a date with me! If she only knew what THAT would mean haha! As you know, I travel a lot on ministry, so we are apart far too much. Distance is to love what wind is to fire — it snuffs the weak, but fans the strong.

It certainly fans our love. It is very true that it takes serious work to make a marriage last and cause the passion to continue to flame. Blessings on you and Jacqui. Hey, how are you going Bob?

How are things in sunny, downtown Chatham, Ontario? Good to hear from you! I love that thought that distance is to love what wind is to fire — it snuffs the weak but fans the strong. Thanks Berni for this latest message. That was a real challenge in terms of intimate relationship, but I thank the Lord for a husband who stuck by me and was prepared to look for ways to help keep passion alive.. Having said all that I intend to get the book by David Clarke so that our love and passion can continue to grow on into our old age.

We have an amazing God, and I praise his name for the gift of marriage. Brenda, the Lord has blessed you both amazingly. Being prepared to keep working at it is the key. Years and years of study on his part and complete loneliness for me have completely taken the spark out of our marriage.

I hope that the messages help gets some spark into your marriage. Posted by Berni Dymet in Church. A Visit from the Dark Side. Discover the Answer to Your Money Worries. LOL I love that thought that distance is to love what wind is to fire — it snuffs the weak but fans the strong. Bless ya bro, Berni Reply. I'd love to know what you think Follow me on Twitter My Tweets.

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Do everything you can to let him know that you care for him and want to be together. Much of what Donalyn said goes both ways. Ask yourself, men, how have you expressed to her that she is a priority? When was the last time you had a night out? Agree to set at least a bi-weekly date night.

Make no excuse not to keep it. Most men are not the romantic type. If you are, count your blessing. For the majority who are as sensitive as crash-test dummies, here are a few more suggestions. Try being naked under the covers when he gets into bed! If she can feel safe with you and know that you cherish her, she will be drawn to you in every way. Frankly, sex is good when the relationship is great. Oh, I forgot to say one more thing…get something new and sexy to wear to bed.

Remember, for the woman, marital intimacy — real emotional connectedness — comes through being valued , through time spent together, through talking and sharing, and through special acts of thoughtfulness. Tell her often that you love her. Plan some intrigue into an evening that takes some work to set up.

She will appreciate the effort immensely. Make the time to be alone together. Talk about the things you love about each other. The point is, once you get yourself into the planning and scheming mode of romance and truly want to be much more than roommates, you start doing whatever you can to please your mate. When you do this, the desire for a growing romantic intimacy with one another will really grow. This article was written by: Ironically there are plenty of parallels between your domestic dilemma and the Euro debate taking place across the country, that finds you on opposing sides.

In a climate where facts are thin on the ground and opinions epidemic, most voters will be making their choice with hearts rather than heads, making it my natural territory. As with any impending break-up it is difficult, as the rhetoric from both parties escalates, to sort the truth from the fiction. Sticking with the devil you know may not be the most compelling reason to remain in a marriage or as a member state, but finding a way to coexist is a vital ingredient for contentment at any level of existence.

Instead of heading for the door what about trying to disrupt the status quo? Like all relationships there will be much that could be improved on and new issues to resolve, but if individuals, like my pal and her husband, can turn from enmity to intimacy, and couples like you from apathy to enthusiastic re-engagement, then surely our politicians, charged with behaving maturely and intelligently for the greater good, should be encouraged to do likewise.

If you have a dilemma, send a brief email to mariella. Here are the truths about sex, as I know them, for most married couples, with some tips to re-charge your sex life:. Love is constant; passion needs recharging No surprise: Everything in the universe demagnetizes when left in proximity to something of the opposite charge. Magnets do, and men and women do. Some people fall out of lust in seven days, never mind seven years or Basic animal attraction is a force of nature that seems designed to make us mate—not mate for life.

Relaxing in our marriages, freeing ourselves from the pressure of trying to impress our partner, has a predictable outcome: Our partners are not impressed. The magnetic spell we once cast on them begins to lift. Cozy is comfortable, but not sexy To the extent that men and women become real to each other, they cease to be princes and princesses, gods and goddesses who inspire romantic fantasies or amorous worship. Since couples lucky enough to be emotionally genuine with one another share so many real moments, they need to pay special attention to creating magical ones—because great sex requires magic.

I believe you can have a close marriage and recapture a good sex life—but only once you admit that re-igniting romance takes creativity and a commitment of time and energy. For the overwhelming majority of couples, being married makes being passionate together more difficult, not less. Admitting this is happening is the first step toward making it stop.

After 21 years of counselling thousands of married couples – that’s all this guy does, marriage counselling – he concludes that every married couple loses the passion. In fact, in the second sentence of the 1 st paragraph of the 1 . By Terry Gaspard, MSW, LICSW. Dear Terry, I’ve been married to Bruce for eight years and I’m worried because we’ve lost the passion and excitement we used to have. Find New Passion offers interesting and free dating for married individuals. Whether you are looking forward to indulging in exciting affairs with married men or women, keep it safe and confidential with Find New Passion.